Sighh

[sweetayaka]

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[transient_days]

Him: No it's pointless to try to even discuss something. It won't get us anywhere so we might as well keep them from each other.

That is wrong. Completely. If he's going to say something like that, then it's obvious he's not happy about the relationship, and that he's a liar. It sounds like he's contradicting himself throughout this entire conversation. He sounds annoyed. He's a weak arguer.

Him: I don't want to pressure you into anything. I know I'm kinda pushy but it's just my curiosity.

Sounds to me like it's just him being pushy. Unless he's tried to reject the money you gave him for gas before, I don't like that he's only bringing it up now.

[sweetayaka]

To be fair, I used to keep things from him when I was upset because it was the stupidest little things like some bad choice of words or feeling like he was embarrassed being around me. So he might be trying to show me how it felt with what I was doing to him. But I do agree that he is contradicting himself a lot.

I gave him some gas money for Christmas in addition to other things, but he tried to give it back. Other times he's paid for things but I gave him money back for that and for gas.

[transient_days]

I think you should be asking yourself if you're happy most of the time you're with him or talking to him. Cause if you're not, then something's wrong. He should be asking himself those same questions too.

[sweetayaka]

Regardless of how I answer that question, I know he will say yes. It's been a struggle to stay together lately. I wonder if it's more the idea of each other rather than staying together that causes us to stay.