I don't want to pretend like I know everything about relationships, because judging by my last big one, I really, really don't! But if you know that you and Rob are done for real, the whole hanging out a lot thing might be making it harder to take the next step and look for something new. It seems that you've got a few options, and even if they're not long term, they might be right for right now. So I'd say that if you're sure of what you want right now, talk with Rob and make it clear that you're not getting back together and that you're going to see other people and that he's gotta be okay with that. Sucks balls though, I know. But if he cares about you, he'll understand, and you still might get a good friend out of the deal. But again, I could be totally wrong.
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Best of luck, and Merry Christmas!
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