If you don't know how to start it, then use your facial expressions to make the other side feel you have something to say and he'll be the one to ask about it. Otheriwse, all you need to do is to be less tight and tense when wanting to speak and talk about something in your mind. Don't over think, just let it out the way you do when you just type in this journal ;)
Assalaamu Alikum. Yeah. Don't think about. Well, to every person their own. I'm the sort of person who, when I know i'm going to meet someone, plan the whole converstion in my head! but if you feel thinking about it makes you too nervous...forget about it...also, if you think you are forgetting words, just explain what you are saying in a longer version ...take care sweety! ^.~
i have something to say which is similar to what others have said. when you think too much about something to say, and then when it doesn't come out as planned, you get even more confused and then you end up not saying anything at all. be spontaneous, and just go with the flow.
Really_rozy: i plan the everything too and i mean EVERY SINGLE THING..subjects, questions, answers "sometimes some jokes" !! it's so pathetic >_< .. Thanks for commenting dear :)
sadia: when you think too much about something to say, and then when it doesn't come out as planned, you get even more confused and then you end up not saying anything at all.. I totally agree.. that's exactly what happens to me :( .. i will try to be more spontaneous as u said .. Thanks for commenting :)
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Yeah. Don't think about. Well, to every person their own. I'm the sort of person who, when I know i'm going to meet someone, plan the whole converstion in my head! but if you feel thinking about it makes you too nervous...forget about it...also, if you think you are forgetting words, just explain what you are saying in a longer version ...take care sweety! ^.~
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i plan the everything too and i mean EVERY SINGLE THING..subjects, questions, answers "sometimes some jokes" !! it's so pathetic >_< .. Thanks for commenting dear :)
sadia:
when you think too much about something to say, and then when it doesn't come out as planned, you get even more confused and then you end up not saying anything at all.. I totally agree.. that's exactly what happens to me :( .. i will try to be more spontaneous as u said .. Thanks for commenting :)
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