you're having some crazy dreams there! Good luck finding a place and figuring it out with the boy. Maybe you could just talk to him and see what's going on, if it's doing your head in too much not knowing? I suppose that runs the risk that it might stuff things up, but is it doing your head in more? Goodluck anyway! You must do what you think is right, don't listen to my drivel too much :-)
Thanks Kate, yeah I do want to talk to him about it but need to find the right way.. obviously because we're not together I wouldn't go "omg are you sleeping with someone else you bastard".. so i need to find a non-confronting way of asking him to tell me if he's seeing someone else - just cos I'd rather be the girl that knows about the other girls, instead of finding out 3 months later that he's now going out with some chick that he's been shagging this whole time.. if you know what I mean :P
Nay! I'm so glad to see you on LiveJournal again! It has been so long!
Dreaming about water torture. I dunno! Crazy dream. I miss remembering my dreams. I dreamed the other night that ghosts were staring at me. That's all I remember.
Question. Your friends with benefits. Are you starting to find yourself interested in him as 'more than friends'? Cos I'm unsure from your post if you do. As I've never had an extra curricula friend, I can't help with your neurotic-ism - sorry! xxx
it has been ages!! yeah it was pretty fricking weird. sometimes I'd rather not remember my dreams because they put me in a weird/spacey mood the next day.
hmmm i'm not sure in what way I like him, I mean I am attracted to him as well as seeing him as a friend, which probably means I like him more than I should, maybe I do like him in the same way I've liked previous boyfriends, but I still dont want to be in a relationship at the moment so I'm keeping my feelings in check (or trying to lol) its a bit confusing.
Anyway I'm going to try playing it cool, but just asking him if he wants to hang out more and judging by his reaction ask if he's seeing anyone else.. its hard to tell because i have trouble reading him. He may very well like me but is just doing the stereotypical guy thing where they freak out if they get too close with a girl and so they back away.. (thank god not all guys are like that!)
anyway sorry about the long reply and thanks for listening! :-)
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Dreaming about water torture. I dunno! Crazy dream. I miss remembering my dreams. I dreamed the other night that ghosts were staring at me. That's all I remember.
Question. Your friends with benefits. Are you starting to find yourself interested in him as 'more than friends'? Cos I'm unsure from your post if you do. As I've never had an extra curricula friend, I can't help with your neurotic-ism - sorry!
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yeah it was pretty fricking weird. sometimes I'd rather not remember my dreams because they put me in a weird/spacey mood the next day.
hmmm i'm not sure in what way I like him, I mean I am attracted to him as well as seeing him as a friend, which probably means I like him more than I should, maybe I do like him in the same way I've liked previous boyfriends, but I still dont want to be in a relationship at the moment so I'm keeping my feelings in check (or trying to lol) its a bit confusing.
Anyway I'm going to try playing it cool, but just asking him if he wants to hang out more and judging by his reaction ask if he's seeing anyone else.. its hard to tell because i have trouble reading him. He may very well like me but is just doing the stereotypical guy thing where they freak out if they get too close with a girl and so they back away.. (thank god not all guys are like that!)
anyway sorry about the long reply and thanks for listening! :-)
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