I am a liar

[sweetiepie32]

I have a problem I am a liar

Don't really care too much for my sake

I like lying it's easier, you tell people what they want to really hear.  However it sucks when you are called or busted on it.  Then you feel like shit! So the problem becomes;

1. less lying

2. be better at it

3. always tell the truth

4.?????

5. don't worry about and keep on going

Comments

[birdfigment]

Perhaps this formula can help you. The idea is this: don't say something unless it fulfills at least two of these:
1. it is true
2. it is useful/necessary
3. it is kind

Sometimes, it is both kind and necessary to tell an untruth. "No, she didn't say anything bad about your art." Sometimes, it is necessary to tell a truth which is not kind.

I find it's a pretty good rule of thumb. I also try to tell the truth as much as possible.

Don't know if that will work for you or not, but perhaps it's worth thinking on.

[sweetiepie32]

thanks BF for the reply
the problem is that I started this lying thing for all the right reasons?? how stupid crazy is that, streach the truth to help make someone feel better now I am the one feeling sick
just stopping is my way to handle
you make me think.
thanks
again