Sorry for being Debbie Downer lately...

[sweetly_simple]

I need to stand up for myself but I'm afraid of losing even more than I already have. But in not standing up for myself, I'm only allowing them to go on thinking that it's okay for them to treat me like they have been. It's a catch-22. I know I can live without them, I just don't want to. People ask me all the time why I put up with their shit.

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[karamel_baby]

being a good friend for a few weeks doesn't erase 5 years of shittiness. you can tell them how you feel, or you can just phase them out of your life. i don't like confrentation either. if you don't want them to be in the picture anymore, they don't have to be. delete them from your phone. say you cant hang out if they call, etc.etc. eventually they'll stop trying cause apparently yuo werent that important in the first place.

lemme know if i can help. lovelove