How inspiring....you know I have a crazy mother too and I'm sure you understand how hard it is and how people just don't want to accept when you say, "She is not a part of my life." I love it when people say "Oh you'll outgrow it, it's just a phase" and it's like, NO she's been crazy her whole life. Why do people consider it so selfish when we have to distance ourselves in order to save ourselves? Should we be going down with the ship or rotting on the vine with them just because they gave birth to us?
It sounds like you have reached some level of forgiveness and/or acceptance of her and that takes a lot of strength. I hope to achieve that some day.
hey there miss, It's shelly...i always read your journals but i didnt realize i was able to respond to them lol..well yea i must agree with you about Cindy!! But the person who left that comment get me very mad! Heres my response...Yes cindy may be a very kind an loving person but she is no mother! She had five kids an only got the chance to raise one! I thank god she had me an i thank god she didnt raise me. MY MOTHER has done such a wonderful job an i am the beautiful, successful women i am today bacause of her, an i love her!! ahah that person pissed me off so i had to leave a comment! Love you sweety an miss you..check my mysapce i have the pictures we took for dad's birthday on there!! love you xoxo ur shell <3
Re: hey lovelysweetxcalamityAugust 17 2006, 04:11:11 UTC
My darling Shelly, Thank you so much for backing me up!!! I'm so glad you read this journal! :) I saw your myspace and the pictures are BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! You look HOTTTTTTT as always! I love you!!
u dont know me ,but i know u
anonymous
September 10 2006, 18:12:03 UTC
i dont know where u got ur facts from but i have know ur mom or mother what ever u refer to her as for 7 yrs and she is a great women u need the help not her.i dont know where u got ur facts from but they are wrong who ever told u them are wrong and i have a good idea where it came from.u dont know her so dont judge her until u have walk a mile in her shoes u are a selfish little brat
parents....
anonymous
September 11 2006, 02:42:16 UTC
hey. i dont think you know me. but i know Lindsey(i love her!lol.) and your mom. im your moms "boyfriends" daguhter. believe me i know how you feel. my dad is a complete adn total jerk. i havent spoken to him in about 4 years. and he lives about 10minutes away form me. i just wanted to say that i know that it sucsk. i used to go adn visit ur mom and my dad when Lindsey still lived with them. they are both idiots in my opinion. if you disagree then im sorry. but i cant stand either one of them. well... if you see Lindsey any time soon tell her Blu said hi. ill talk to you later.
This goes out to both daughters of the "idiots". Niether of you have even taking the time to know your parents or what they have been going through these past years. You have both been raised by other people,yet you complain how bad your lives are. You know today is the anniversary when the hatred of a "Real Idiot", cut short the lives of so many people. Trust me, I know from experience, hatred gets you no where, and does not resolve any issues or better your life in anyway. Maybe if you both stop beeing selfish, and for one minute, take the time to see the other person for who they are today. Have either of you tried to reach out to your parents? Something tells me that both of you go by what other people have told you (especially you,Blu). Live is to short, and what do you really accomplish by hatred!!
Is this Rusty's sister? Anyway it doens't matter who you are. You need a hobby.
1. stop contradicting yourself, all of your information is second hand 2. no one cares if you have known the mom the last 7 years, its the 20 years before that you should be concerned with. 3. "u are a selfish little brat" stop the name calling. take some of your own advice and dont judge people until you have had to walk a mile thier shoes. 4. "u don't know me, but i know u" Are you fucking 10 years old!! have some conviction in your statements put your name on it. 5. the computer has spell check USE IT!!!! 6. DON'T EVER COMPARE A FAMILY DIFFERENCES TO THE TRAGEDY OF 9/11.
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It sounds like you have reached some level of forgiveness and/or acceptance of her and that takes a lot of strength. I hope to achieve that some day.
Love,
Izzy
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It's shelly...i always read your journals but i didnt realize i was able to respond to them lol..well yea i must agree with you about Cindy!! But the person who left that comment get me very mad! Heres my response...Yes cindy may be a very kind an loving person but she is no mother! She had five kids an only got the chance to raise one! I thank god she had me an i thank god she didnt raise me. MY MOTHER has done such a wonderful job an i am the beautiful, successful women i am today bacause of her, an i love her!! ahah that person pissed me off so i had to leave a comment! Love you sweety an miss you..check my mysapce i have the pictures we took for dad's birthday on there!! love you xoxo ur shell <3
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Thank you so much for backing me up!!!
I'm so glad you read this journal! :)
I saw your myspace and the pictures are BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!
You look HOTTTTTTT as always!
I love you!!
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i dont think you know me.
but i know Lindsey(i love her!lol.) and your mom.
im your moms "boyfriends" daguhter.
believe me i know how you feel.
my dad is a complete adn total jerk.
i havent spoken to him in about 4 years.
and he lives about 10minutes away form me.
i just wanted to say that i know that it sucsk.
i used to go adn visit ur mom and my dad when Lindsey still lived with them.
they are both idiots in my opinion.
if you disagree then im sorry.
but i cant stand either one of them.
well...
if you see Lindsey any time soon tell her Blu said hi.
ill talk to you later.
-Mistie Blu
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1. stop contradicting yourself, all of your information is second hand
2. no one cares if you have known the mom the last 7 years, its the 20 years
before that you should be concerned with.
3. "u are a selfish little brat" stop the name calling. take some of your own advice and dont judge people until you have had to walk a mile thier shoes.
4. "u don't know me, but i know u" Are you fucking 10 years old!!
have some conviction in your statements put your name on it.
5. the computer has spell check USE IT!!!!
6. DON'T EVER COMPARE A FAMILY DIFFERENCES TO THE TRAGEDY OF 9/11.
take that to heart!
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