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[swimgrl37]

The Five Love Languages
My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

Complete set of results
Quality Time: 9Acts of Service: 8Words of Affirmation: 8Physical Touch: 3Receiving Gifts: 2

Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we

Comments

[gentdirkly]

I'm glad you found this interesting, but I believe what these actually are will largely be determined by your first relationship. I'm wrong a lot about that sort of thing though.

[swimgrl37]

Guess that means I will have to continue to wait to find out what my "love language" is.
Gina: "Hello, God...yep, I'm still waiting." :)

[gentdirkly]

well, you know the things you like best about your relationship with God, and analyzing that shows a lot, except for the obvious fact that God doesn't physically touch.

[bonsaye]

To disagree with Mike (sorry), I should tell you that love languages, as talked about by Gary Chapman in the book, really have nothing to do with romance or guy/girl relationships. He applies them to children, family, coworkers, friends, and others. I've found it helpful for me to know OTHER people's love languages, not really my own, because what matters is whether I'm communicating to them.

[anonymous]

You and Bonni have convinced me to at least give this a try; I got acts of service at the top and words of affirmation at the bottom. I'd never thought of this before, but I do have difficulty giving verbal affirmation and I really don't care much when it's given to me. Helping her do something or having her help me is huge though. Yeah, I definitely would have trouble in a relationship with a girl who is the other way around. In fact, I just did. Live and learn I suppose.

[gentdirkly]

that was me by the way.

[swimgrl37]

Got ya...yeah I saw that your relationship status changed. Mutual thing?

[gentdirkly]

i'd rather continue that conversation on AIM if you want.. i'm at the same name.