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[swimmanc]

i just dont know...i'm so confused. should i let him know or shouldnt i? should i let well enough alone and not complicate things anymore or open my big mouth and say it (everyone knows how good i am at the latter)? i'd really like someone to point me in the right direction but last time i took peoples advice it got me in trouble so now i'm even

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[fish_fish]

Which will you regret more in the future: saying something or holding your tongue? By saying what you feel, you face three possiblilities: he returns the feelings, does not return the feelings and pulls away, or does not return the feelings yet is caring enough to continue the friendship as it had been going before. By not saying anything, your friendship continues on, yet the possiblity of more slips away... unless he approaches you at some point. Its totally up to you as to which road you take but I can say that it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. If he does not return the feelings, at least you will not remain trapped in limbo. Personally, I'd rather have the bright reds of love and deep blues of rejection than the greys of not taking a chance...

[superju]

the big j man has a point
just do it
go for the gold
ive never led you wrong before
but then again i cant say im all that good with this kind of advice my situation is any better then yours

in all honesty whats the worse that could happen? you tell this guy and he rejects you? for some reason i doubt it. any guy who would do that to you, in my opinion, is dumb and not worth the time/energy.

[memyselfandmatt]

I'd say go for it...but saying it is far easier than actually doing it. But sometimes we just have to set doubts aside...even if they were right in the end, and take the leap of faith. A blinde step in faith may pay off ten fold in the end.

love you!

[nydancersah]

My dear...I'm glad you did it...for your sake...he's right...tis better to have loved than lost than never to have loved at all...It hurts like a bitch and trust me, I get it...but know that I'm here for you and I love you!!! I'm sorry if I ever led you down the wrong path...If it hurt you in the long run, that was not my intention...I know I can be kind of a bitch sometimes...I guess it's just my nature sometimes...I get defensive if I don't know what I'm talking about, which turns out to be quite a lot...and I do sincerely apologize...Can't wait till you get home!!!!!