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[swisschick]

I could never understand why people decide to wallow in their pain when something horrible happens in their life. I'm not saying to forget your problems and troubles but why constantly talk about it, all its doing is making you even more upset (I know that might sound hypocritical coming from me). Life obviously has to go on and for that to happen

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[snoopster]

everyone handles pain differently. and i think the reason they were crying was b/c it was so new and unbelievable and that was their way of letting out their pain, by tommorrow the crying would ahev stop and ppl will move on but the thought will be w/ them for a while thats the way ppl tend to deal with things i hope your ok and if you ever need to talk and lets out anything you know im here for you.

stephie

p.s. yes it was hypocritical!

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[swisschick]

I dont know I think im just so use to harboring feelins when something like this happenes. All I want to do is change the subject because I dont want to see anyone in pain, so I try not to make them think about it, but Im the same way on myself. I dont know if thats good or bad.

ps. thanx for agreeing with me

its been a while ...

[aareject]

i dunno - everyone has different ways of coping with things .. but theres nothing wrong with thinking what ure thinking - thats your way of dealing w. it .. im sorry tho, and if u need to talk, im here ..