Mar 31, 2003 22:01
Do you ever worry sometimes that maybe you are boring?
I always get that feeling, when I'm having conversations with old friends.... and there just isn't much to say anymore... is it me that is boring?
does it even have to do with bordem? possibly just growing apart?
I hope I'm not boring!
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Cuz I know I'm boring already ... I've resigned myself to that fact .. makes life much easier
:-)
people do grow apart ... I've noticed that ... And I somewhat wonder why and regret it, even as I try to prevent it from happening .. it's like the other person just wants it to grow apart ... meh .. that's life I guess
if you makes you feel any better, *I* don't think you're boring ...
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If at least one person finds me interesting, then I'm okay with that!
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there is usually 1 of 2 things that will keep a conversation fresh and the opposite of boring . number one would be genuine interest . even if you dont necessarily know each other , a common ground is a great place for a foundation . or at least a few hours of light but intriguing conversation . number two would be the regular formula of actually being good close friends . good friends understand that it doesnt have to be interesting for you to care . sometimes people just need you to listen .
old friends definitely do grow apart and the way it often goes is that once we get to a certain age we stop making many new friends and we like it that way . old friends usually stay just that . most of them . maybe us human beings just lose interest in getting to know people all over again .
but you are not boring . i promise you :]
xo.
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That means a lot to tme!
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