beauty,brains,or both

[swtntemptin]

What makes a man notice a woman? What makes a woman notice a man? 9 times out of 10 its appearance. Of course physical attraction is important because well all enjoy some eye A woman may look at a man and assess whether he's successful and/or husband material. Those things are important to me but sometimes I feel like I sell myself short because I

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[audacity1908]

I prefer brains... But I appreciate a man that can take care of what he has. Whatever his strong points are I would be attracted to him if he worked with what he has.

I was just talking to my best gal pal about how many ugly men we have dated in our dating history... Sadly to say my money really wasn't where my mouth was. Most of the men I've dated looked good and lacked some key elements personality wize...

*sigh*

I can dream right... LOL

[ambitious_one]

Sometimes it seems so hard to find the 'complete package' ... but that could be due to me and my 'pickiness'. i find someone who appears to have it all together and at the same time ... not only think they're prettier than me ... but have so much confidence and so many girls on him that he could care less about what ONE girl thinks. *shrugs* ... so ... to satisfy my taste for the 'got it goin on' guys ... i find myself sacraficing somewhat my love for a clean cut almond roasted ... style as fresh as towels st8 out the washing machine ... brotha. lol...

but like one of my grannies say...
'God don't like ugly ... and he aint to crazy about pretty either.'

[swtntemptin]

God don't like ugly ... and he aint to crazy about pretty either

oooo...me likes that! If you ever hear me use that in a post tell granny I said "thanks"

[lunar_moon_glow]

If you find him, see if he has a brother for me, eh?

[swtntemptin]

girl if I find him I'll see if he has a brother,cousin,uncle, etc for everybody--LOL.

[lunar_moon_glow]

hahaha I love it

[hot_caramel15]

You are so right... looks can only get u so far.. thats why most of my boyfriends have been ugly :P there the ones that treat u right. haha