Love Ridden (damnit, Fiona)

[sylkweb]

Have you ever noticed that when you are sad or heartbroken, every song that comes on the radio reminds you of your tragedy? You see happy couples everywhere? I am not sure if these things happen as a reminder to feel things and allow ourselves to heal or if we choose only to see what we want to see, but damn, I'm getting a lot of little reminders

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[ne]

I may wind up sounding all hokey and what not but feh screw it.

I learned a long time ago that the only way to love people is to just love them with no strings attached, no conditions, and to treat each and every time as a gift to both you and to them.
Love will come into your life and then sometimes it will stay but often the person you love will often wander off for various reasons, we hope all good but sometimes it is sadly not the case, in any of these it's an experience to treasure and remember.
You let them come and you let them go, sometimes they will grow and remain friends sometimes you watch them slip and stumble, you watch them fall and hurt, and you are there as the friend.
I am not talking enabling anyone just being there so they know that someone cares but that they have to take responsibility for their own actions.

You are a wonderful loving and giving person.
I know you know that and a ton of us know that and love you for it.

Remember the good times and let him go.
Remember you are awesome.

Hugs and love.

[arielrose]

Wow...we really do need to sit and talk soon. I have been having so many of the same feelings when it comes to Dirk and how it all hits me, especially lately. I don't deal well with loss or change either...hate it actually! Too bad life seems to dish out so much of it. I feel my wounded heart messing with me alot and wondering these days if I'm too beat up to be having any semblance of a healthy relationship right now. Are you free this coming up Weds. night? Let me know, cause I think dinner and a good chat would be really great right about now...