A Confession

[sylverowl]

I am afraid of gay people.

It's true.

I was ruminating on how I want to date more often next semester, and thinking of ways to make that happen, when I ran upon this (rather large) stumbling block. I'm afraid of gay people.

But Grant, you say, you are a gay person. Why are you afraid? I think it's an inferiority complex. Generally I think I

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[pent]

Fear the wicked Gay

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I didn't read this comment, and have not finished reading this entry (I will read both in the morning because I am interested), but your first sentence reminded me of a band name I proposed to a friend earlier:

SOMETHING DISCO THIS WAY COMES

[sylverowl]

hahahahaha

[imournthewicked]

it's okay Grant...I too was afraid of gay people at one point...don't know how I got over it...

[anonymous]

Hey Mr.,

Happy New Year,

I wanted to give you an older opinion...because I was also "scared" of gay people. (Have you noticed that I am single?!?!?!?!) What I have discovered over the years is that what I was actually scared of was not the OTHER people, but what I was afraid I was going to find when I did deeper research on myself. It was an eventual process, but when I did get underneath my facade, I found that I actually now like what was/is there, and am comfortable enough to be myself in whatever situation I find myself in. The Collin thing is bizarre...I know him WELL and never saw any of that...but you are NOT the only person that has mentioned that to me. I would assume that it is him trying to figure himself out that makes him project that quality. You have nothing to worry about honey in either the looks department or the personality department...go for it!!!!

tc from gd (are you freaked out that I read your journal? haha)

[sylverowl]

Not at all freaked out, Thom--you're advice really helps. I'm glad to have you around!

[fallstosilver]

grant.. you are love embodied, how can anyone resist you?

What's really going on, is they are scared of YOU and your inherent Sexy Guy Grantness.

SEG... grant's way is the SEGway

Ok, I took it too far now. I love you :)

[fallstosilver]

and then I realized there is no E in sexy guy grantness..

I'm an idiot.

Forgive me

[sylverowl]

hahahaha

Thanks anyway :)