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cauld April 1 2009, 03:44:56 UTC
You can't. You have to live with them.

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sylvie_renee April 1 2009, 11:23:56 UTC
Wrong answer.

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missmacdougal April 1 2009, 06:34:53 UTC
Are you alright?

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sylvie_renee April 1 2009, 11:24:38 UTC
You've been very bad at actually replying to what I've asked lately. What the hell, Mo?

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missmacdougal April 1 2009, 21:37:19 UTC
I'm sorry, you're writing about bad things happening to you and I'm not allowed to be concerned?

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sylvie_renee April 1 2009, 21:40:27 UTC
Nowhere did I say there were bad things happening to me. Why can't you ever just answer the damn question?

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meginwonderland April 2 2009, 19:41:12 UTC
Um. Alice's Adventures in Wonderland helps a lot. It's my favourite book. And when things get bad I just try to remember it word for word and it usually helps. And when that doesn't... well, you're going to laugh. But. Um. Prayers. Our Father, Hail Mary, etc. Along the same lines as Alice... I guess but more calming? Anyways, those are really the only things that push the bad thoughts out.

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sylvie_renee April 2 2009, 21:49:27 UTC
Why would I laugh? I had to learn those back to get communion. Notre père, qui êtes aux cieux - Que votre nom soit sanctificié, etc, etc.

But it's basically something you know well sort of droning it all out?

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meginwonderland April 2 2009, 21:55:26 UTC
A lot of people laugh when I mention prayer.

It's a little more than that. It's stuff I know well, yes. But it's stuff that's always been really important to me. Alice was the first book I learned to read and I've always loved it. And prayer just... it's peaceful. There's something about it that's soothing. That's what makes them different than reciting school things or ingredients or people's names or things.

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sylvie_renee April 2 2009, 22:08:42 UTC
Church has never really been my thing, but if that stuff wasn't working for a lot of people, there wouldn't be as many that do go and all that.

And noted.

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summerchef April 5 2009, 00:56:01 UTC
Playing music or cooking, anything that causes a distraction.

I don't recommended drinking until you forget everything though, because it just comes back the next day accompanied with a headache.

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sylvie_renee April 5 2009, 01:05:54 UTC
That's what hangover potions are for.

Thanks.

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turnedcorner April 14 2009, 05:32:25 UTC
The only organic method is to turn your mind elsewhere to keep it from chewing over that one thing you want to get over--have your mind focus on your body (so do something physical--and, yes, I know what you're thinking), do the prayer/meditation/recitations/etc. thing. That, and if there's a memory you're particularly trying to repress, work hard to associate new, better memories with the people/places/things that would ordinarily trigger a descent back into the thing you're trying to forget.

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sylvie_renee April 15 2009, 00:44:23 UTC
Like Pavlov's dogs?

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turnedcorner April 15 2009, 04:54:01 UTC
I guess, in a way, yeah. In a less demeaning way, maybe.

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