New Years Resolutions Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tactfullady]

Please,please,please do this!!!!!!!
Only anon. comments are going to be allowed. Since you all know me so well from my journal, please leave me a constructive New Years Resolution that you think I could really use to better my life! I WILL NOT get offended at anything as long as you post honestly about what you think!

Comments

[undestiny]

you can't have it as a locked friends post if you want to allow anonymous comments

;P

[tactfullady]

Fixed...good looking out! (:

[undestiny]

i'm not doing this anonymously because i don't want to

[tactfullady]

Aww, I would never be salty at you momma!
I agree with your suggestion. I am not living my life, I am participating in it and that ain't cool. Hopefully now that miles is getting a little older, we will have more time/energy to debate wat we want out of our relationship.

[ziba04]

well it won't let me post anonymously, plus im sure it has IP address logging and you can compare to find out who it was haha

but anyway, i think you should take a break at least one weekend a month and not schedule anything for the whole weekend, and just chill at home. It seems like you are always running around and pleasing others and hosting events and going to every birthday party. You should make one weekend just for you to get your hair done, nails, pedicure, massage (even if its a cheap $15 chair massage) and hang out with your friends. maybe not once a month but at least every 3 months? lol. I don't know where you get all that energy! you little roadrunner you!

[tactfullady]

LOL, I don't know how to llok up IP's and crap like that, plus that would defeat the purpouse of this thing.
Great suggestion...let me pass that one on to P and make him babysit. I think the same thing should go for you too lady!

[ziba04]

well unfortunately i have no life and no friends, so most saturdays are spent being lazy at home, sundays too! sometimes i don't even see the light of day on weekends. So my resolution is to make more friends and go out and be social :) I wanna be like you!

[tactfullady]

My "socializing" is always with my kids and IF there are any adults present, they are all over 35 years old.....you do NOT want to be me.

[shazzykins]

Erm it says you've disabled annonymous posting sooohere's what I think:

I completely agree 100% on everything the other two said and I couldn't have said it any better mysef. It really seems like you're putting in alot more time and effort into the relationship than P is and you ARE always running around it's crazy. You totally deserve more *me* time. :) IF MOMMA AINT HAPPY NO ONE HAPPY! :P *hugs*

[tactfullady]

yeah, I suck at LJ. I am going to fix it now.

[shazzykins]

LMAO don't worry same thing happened to me *blush* I tried to test it and it was like U CANNOT COMMENT ON THIS FRIENDS ONLY POST i felt like a tool :( haha

[misscrankypants]

I don't mind if you know this is me.

I agree that you need to reassess the situation with P. Just because he is the kid's father does not mean that he is right for you. You guys have really tried to make it work and there are still fundamental issues that are causing stress and fighting.

I think you'd be better off without him. Are you going to marry him? If not, does he fit into the long term picture at all?

I'm not saying you have to get married but it just seems like you are settling for a situation when you could have so much more.

My $.02, you know I love you!

[tactfullady]

I know you do!
Thanks. You probably know this more than anyone because you knew me and how happy I was without him for that little while.

[undestiny]

i totally ditto the "i think you'd be better off without him"

[tactfullady]

The sad thing is, I KNOW this, but I just can't do it...what is wrong with me?