R.I.P. Dolores Marie Schedl, 1919-2010

[tahari]

(Maternal Grandmother) has been dying for a couple of years and we've all been waiting. I'm sorry (because of the tragedy) but not particularly sorry because she was mean to my mother and it will be a relief for mom who's devoted much of the past decade or so to her care. But I still feel bad. The kind of bad you feel when you've really fucked

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[expanding_x_man]

I'm only repeating what I said on FB, but I am sorry for your loss and your family's loss (especially your mom), although I can understand that the feelings this lets loose for you are complex. I remember a bit of the back story. She was a character! Do remember you can call me if you need to, or if you want to hang out to get your mind in a different place, that is cool too. I am here for you if you need, in this time of complex, sad and strange, if not unexpected, bereavement.

Take care -- may she RIP.

[isindra]

I'm sorry, as well, for your loss and for the complicated circumstances.

[owen_amends]

Ah dear *brotherly hugs* My condolences.

I relate to experiencing dueling emotions regarding your grandmother's passing. When my father died I was both relieved and sad. It was what it was, he was a real SOB yet he was still the man who taught me to debate, to think beyond what society wanted me to think, etc. Mixed.