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[tainted____love]

Jason flat out told me that we don't have sex anymore because I am too fat.
We are done.

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[caketime]

lol omg

Sorry, but is he dumb?!

[tainted____love]

It's really embarassing to say that he said that to me.
Sure I've gained some weight since we started dating.....
BUT....
3 years ago I got out of a horrific abusive relationship and was a crystal meth fiend.
Still doesn't constitute anyone ever saying that.
Plus I don't even see it as "gaining weight"..... I see it as returning to a healthy lifestyle as an adult.

[caketime]

1. how he said it is really important to a healthy relationship. Blaming you for the lack of sex because HE thinks you're too fat instead of suggesting you could lose a bit of weight healthily and he'd love to help you- "come go jogging with me :)" is SO immature and childish. And downright selfish!

2. The fact that he doesn't really see it as returning to a healthy lifestyle (and I agree with your point of view) also makes him short-sighted.
):

[tainted____love]

I'm not even talking to him right now. I locked him out of the bedroom and when i came into the living room to watch tv, i asked him to leave. I don't want to even see him or be in the same ro as him. When he said that in our argument two notes ago, I got up and went to bed. I just went numb. I'm not even sad or upset or anything. He's still at the apartment to pay the rent because I don't want to get into a situation financially that I can't get out of. Plus I started a new job and haven't recieved my first paycheck. It's a little hard to search for apartments when you don't have a budget.
I'm thinking that he wanted to just be mean at the moment but reguardless, what was said was said and it's totally over.