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[takaiji]

"The way I see it is why dwell on what he said/she said? Life is too short to crumple into a depressed, miserable heap on the floor. I'm going to be fine, and he's going to be fine. So we are working on a good, stable friendship. Like most things though, it takes time."

Quote from my last journal entry. I truly mean that, every word. I have been

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[sabrina_pandora]

As someone almost entirely out of the situation, if you need someone to talk to you are more than welcome to talk to me or come over for dinner or something. Big shoulders, I.

And I'm sorry that it's sucking, ninja girl. I'd like to think it will get better.

[takaiji]

I might take you up on that some time. Hang out outside of a con. :)

[sabrina_pandora]

Our casa, su casa. I'm a mean cook, I warn ya. We're usually about on weekends, as I work evenings, but call me if ya need me.

404-488-8720

Divorce sucks from so many angles.

[spiritchaser1]

Like I said when someone recently asked me what happened or what was going on: I don't know the whole story, that's between them. I only know pieces, and from that it seems both sides are at fault. It is never a completely one-sided thing.

I know things looked a certain way with my divorce, but it wasn't the whole story. I know people talked shit about me at the time, and I didn't always feel the need to correct them, because really, they can speculate what they want. I got tired of trying to correct people.

I don't think you are a bad guy, and I don't think Thomas is, either. Another problem is that people overhear a snippet of a conversation, and think they know what is being said about people.
I don't personally know of anyone who has turned against you, but if they have, their loss. They'll either come around, or be left by the wayside.
*HUG* Hang in there, sweetie.

Re: Divorce sucks from so many angles.

[takaiji]

Thanks. :)
I just don't people taking sides. I want our friends to continue being our friends.

[tripartite]

Some people seem to turn who they want to be the bad guy, into the bad guy. For example, I had someone tell me, "I know everything" about pleasuregelf and I's situation. They didn't bother to ask she, I, or the new girlfriend anything. They just assumed something they heard 2nd hand was "The Truth" and that was that.

I've also had other friends ask she and I our version of the story and continue on like we were before the break up, as friends.

Your mileage may vary.

I'm sure you are at fault. I'm sure tk0667 is at fault as well. People make mistakes. I know pleasuregelf made mistakes. I know I made mistakes too. We're still friends and supporting each other. It seems our friends have taken their cue from us. Perhaps your friends will as well?

Hang in there, it does get better and it is worth it.

[takaiji]

I know it's going to get better, just the bumpy'ness getting to the ok part. :)

[takaiji]

Oh, I am fine. Just a little thing I had to get off my chest to keep trucking along. The joys of journals, eh?

So no worries, kid. It's all good. :)

[giana]

People are dumb and we should punch them.

[takaiji]

Agreed. :)