Bless this post. You basically summed up everything I felt the past days concerning the Exo fandom. The excuses for their behaviour are laughable at best and I can't take anyone seriously that pulls the 'It was a once in a lifetime chance you would have done the same jealous bitches etc.' card. And yes, that was the most common excuse I've came across and the amount of facepalms were way too many to count tbqh. And wow, the reasons for the Kai hate are ridiculous. I can't right now. =.= Same with Suho, I don't even have words right now. I also want to point out that I-fandom is always quick to point fingers at stalker fans and how their behaviour is unacceptable, but when it comes down to it, they are not really any better. The London thing just showed that and that were my thoughts about the whole issue as well. I agree with everything you said, end of story.
People really call A-JAX that? I'm not in the fandom and outside of their single I don't know much about them, but calling them names like that is fucking rude.
The excuses for their is such bullshit I literally cannot with them and their logic. Like how do their brains work do they even have one. AND LOL OMG WHY WOULD I BE JEALOUS? What is there to be jealous of; their lack of a life? You did not have to follow them around all day. Like I understand if you saw your idol you'd want to approach them too, but chasing them down all day and shoving cameras into their faces is not the same thing nor respectable
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I agree with everything here...so much, its ridiculous. Thank you for voicing out what many decent fans have thought about for ages. Ok I am new to some of these issues and familiar with others...
I didn't know about this Kai being a slut thing till today when I saw a rant about it on tumblr. I wondered where it came from. Are they seriously calling this boy names like this to his face? Goodness he's a teenager and an incredibly adorable one at that. I remember seeing that clip from the first showcase where Leetuk asking him to do a cute aegyo pose and he was so painfully shy. Then when he got around to it I felt like we were looking at puppies and sunshine. So precious. And teenage boys anywhere in the world tend to learn swears first so of course these boys know what they are being called. Its horrid. :( I also get tired of folks saying Kai is arrogant or that he was used in most of the teasers or that he has this attitude. The attitude is what makes him so stellar on stage. It works with this whole sexy routine they are doing and
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It's still up in the air whether or not Jongin was called a slut to his face but it's gotten really rude that people have taken it calling him a slut. And yes he's smart enough to realize that you're calling him a negative term. And how does 'being sexy' make someone a slut, especially when they're not even comfortable being sexy. And yes, Jongin is the cutest, shy little kid ever off stage how can people think he's an arrogant bastard. Learn how to separate on stage from off stage. And that attitude is what makes him so captivating to watch on stage and I want my performers to have that otherwise they have no draw and it's like watching robots on stage or something
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I feel so bad for EXO considering that they're rookies and yet they have people hunting them down EVERYWHERE they go. And ugh, the fancams bug me so much. Especially when they follow them and scream awkward shit. Like, give them a break. Please.
And LOL. I love how you linked a video to epic meal time, haha.
It's terrible that EXO has only been debuted for two months and they're already go through so much shit. Like how they going to put with this crap for the next five years. T___T Everywhere they get fucking harassed and they can't catch a break because crazyass fans don't know how to control themselves. Seriously let oppas breathe people. Those fancams omg - such fucking second-hand embarrassment. It must be SO AWKWARD to have been in that position. No one wants to yelled at like that.
I needed a video where they said bacon! And since epic meal time always uses/says bacon it was perfect lol. :
hi! I stumbled upon this post by accident when I was going through my old memories & saw your SS501 pimp post, read this entry out of curiosity, & couldn't help but comment bcuz everything you wrote here is so.damn.true.
tbh I hadn't even notice Sehun's lisp & was like bwuh?? when thehun kept popping up out of nowhere everywhere & I was like where did this come from?? ya I think it's adorable he stutters his words & stuff but all those thehun jokes & "the lisping kid" are getting /rly/ old AND DON'T GET ME STARTED ON KAI. kai god kai tbh at first I have my reservations about him due to his million teasers but once I saw their debut showcase & how utterly adorable and shy he is I just. I grew to be so fond of him ;~; Kai's just really charismatic & knows how to work the camera but that doesn't mean he's cocky/slutty/whatever. I would say more that he's confident when he's onstage & more than just a little shy & awkward irl. Like hello those fancams of him getting scared repeatedly by confettis?? the most adorable thing ever
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NO NO I'M GLAD MY COMMENT DIDN'T SCARE YOU OFF OR SMTHN ;A;
ikr I am very fond of Sehun & Kai & I just get so mad when people think of them as sluts bcuz of how Kai acts on stage only & how Sehun licks his lips all the time & stuff & I'm just like no. stop. they're easily one of the most awkward members on camera in exo-k (I say this bcuz 90% of exo-m are awkward oncamera lmao)
Y E S another person who recognizes this omg I see exo-m stans everywhere bashing exo-k like BUT THEY ALL LOOK THE SAME COMPARED TO M THEY HAVE NO PERSONALITY ETC ETC & I'm just like. no. N O . and yaaayz for liking underrated ships!! my otps are different from yours but basically they're all also unpopular so I know how you feel ;;
I never knew exochocolate is on moderated posting lol I rarely check that comm nowadays tumblr/tlist is where it's at for me to get news ;; AND YESSSS my main fandoms rn are exo/mblaq/2pm(/b1a4) so I think we'll get along just fine!! I have sent a request via twitter I'm @krissyeol there :D
Haha no you didn't scare me off or anything!! I was very glad to see someone not on my flist agreeing with me! :<
Yes I have soft spots for them too so it really grates on my nerves. And lmao I know you what you mean about m! Omg those interviews give me second-hand embarrassment sometimes!
Yeah sometimes I feel like the only one who's actually k biased ; w ; AND I REALLY HATE THOSE COMMENTS. Excuse you I actually think they're betting looking and more interesting personality wise. Haha shipping all the unpopular ships! Nice to see someone who's like me in that aspect. ;;
Lol it just went on moderated posting for the time being. And ok we're going to get along great then! I already added you back! :)
okay girl, as an big exo fan, you brought up some really interesting points and shit that i agree with, but some of your comments really don't make sense
Also you clearly know nothing about Jongin if you think the above about him. Get your head out of your ass and watch more fancams and videos please. The kid gets embarrassed by saying his own fucking name and gets scared by confetti. The boy is just shy. And do you not fucking see all the hearts he's constantly making? And his moments where he's actually happy and smiles just about the sweetest smile ever? first, you know nothing about jongin either. he's an idol. they have their own idol personas. and unless you know him irl, which i doubt, these arguments are plain funny. and plz don't pull this "omg don't u see all those hearts he makes", ok? that proves nothing lol. tbh i like him, imo he's charming, but he could be a big bitch for all we know. that's why i have nothing against people who don't like him. why can't people dislike/hate him then? everybody has a right to dislike
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lmao i know you'd say something about grammar, but that's fine, thanks for advice :D i know i'm not that good at english and i'm sorry for that. :( i'm not butthurt tho, i just disagree with some of your opinions. ic you're too worked up to reply properly and politely
Ok I was honestly too busy having a real life outside of the internet to reply properly and because I really can't take you seriously when you're using a sock puppet account to reply to me, which is still incredibly hilarious. Also lol your reply wasn't polite so why should I have to be?
But since you wanted a reply so badly here you go. I just don't care enough to argue with a random person on the internet. You're the one came into my journal and tried to push your opinions at me when you know I don't agree with you. So yeah I'm not going to reply and give you the wankfest bullshit response you want. I'm not here to start internet wars. And btw you must be offended if you took the time to log into a sock puppet account or why else would you even be commenting and coming back here right now
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And wow, the reasons for the Kai hate are ridiculous. I can't right now. =.=
Same with Suho, I don't even have words right now.
I also want to point out that I-fandom is always quick to point fingers at stalker fans and how their behaviour is unacceptable, but when it comes down to it, they are not really any better. The London thing just showed that and that were my thoughts about the whole issue as well.
I agree with everything you said, end of story.
People really call A-JAX that? I'm not in the fandom and outside of their single I don't know much about them, but calling them names like that is fucking rude.
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I didn't know about this Kai being a slut thing till today when I saw a rant about it on tumblr. I wondered where it came from. Are they seriously calling this boy names like this to his face? Goodness he's a teenager and an incredibly adorable one at that. I remember seeing that clip from the first showcase where Leetuk asking him to do a cute aegyo pose and he was so painfully shy. Then when he got around to it I felt like we were looking at puppies and sunshine. So precious. And teenage boys anywhere in the world tend to learn swears first so of course these boys know what they are being called. Its horrid. :( I also get tired of folks saying Kai is arrogant or that he was used in most of the teasers or that he has this attitude. The attitude is what makes him so stellar on stage. It works with this whole sexy routine they are doing and ( ... )
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I feel so bad for EXO considering that they're rookies and yet they have people hunting them down EVERYWHERE they go. And ugh, the fancams bug me so much. Especially when they follow them and scream awkward shit. Like, give them a break. Please.
And LOL. I love how you linked a video to epic meal time, haha.
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It's terrible that EXO has only been debuted for two months and they're already go through so much shit. Like how they going to put with this crap for the next five years. T___T Everywhere they get fucking harassed and they can't catch a break because crazyass fans don't know how to control themselves. Seriously let oppas breathe people. Those fancams omg - such fucking second-hand embarrassment. It must be SO AWKWARD to have been in that position. No one wants to yelled at like that.
I needed a video where they said bacon! And since epic meal time always uses/says bacon it was perfect lol. :
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tbh I hadn't even notice Sehun's lisp & was like bwuh?? when thehun kept popping up out of nowhere everywhere & I was like where did this come from?? ya I think it's adorable he stutters his words & stuff but all those thehun jokes & "the lisping kid" are getting /rly/ old AND DON'T GET ME STARTED ON KAI. kai god kai tbh at first I have my reservations about him due to his million teasers but once I saw their debut showcase & how utterly adorable and shy he is I just. I grew to be so fond of him ;~; Kai's just really charismatic & knows how to work the camera but that doesn't mean he's cocky/slutty/whatever. I would say more that he's confident when he's onstage & more than just a little shy & awkward irl. Like hello those fancams of him getting scared repeatedly by confettis?? the most adorable thing ever ( ... )
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ikr I am very fond of Sehun & Kai & I just get so mad when people think of them as sluts bcuz of how Kai acts on stage only & how Sehun licks his lips all the time & stuff & I'm just like no. stop. they're easily one of the most awkward members on camera in exo-k (I say this bcuz 90% of exo-m are awkward oncamera lmao)
Y E S another person who recognizes this omg I see exo-m stans everywhere bashing exo-k like BUT THEY ALL LOOK THE SAME COMPARED TO M THEY HAVE NO PERSONALITY ETC ETC & I'm just like. no. N O . and yaaayz for liking underrated ships!! my otps are different from yours but basically they're all also unpopular so I know how you feel ;;
I never knew exochocolate is on moderated posting lol I rarely check that comm nowadays tumblr/tlist is where it's at for me to get news ;; AND YESSSS my main fandoms rn are exo/mblaq/2pm(/b1a4) so I think we'll get along just fine!! I have sent a request via twitter I'm @krissyeol there :D
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Yes I have soft spots for them too so it really grates on my nerves. And lmao I know you what you mean about m! Omg those interviews give me second-hand embarrassment sometimes!
Yeah sometimes I feel like the only one who's actually k biased ; w ; AND I REALLY HATE THOSE COMMENTS. Excuse you I actually think they're betting looking and more interesting personality wise. Haha shipping all the unpopular ships! Nice to see someone who's like me in that aspect. ;;
Lol it just went on moderated posting for the time being. And ok we're going to get along great then! I already added you back! :)
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Also you clearly know nothing about Jongin if you think the above about him. Get your head out of your ass and watch more fancams and videos please. The kid gets embarrassed by saying his own fucking name and gets scared by confetti. The boy is just shy. And do you not fucking see all the hearts he's constantly making? And his moments where he's actually happy and smiles just about the sweetest smile ever?
first, you know nothing about jongin either. he's an idol. they have their own idol personas. and unless you know him irl, which i doubt, these arguments are plain funny. and plz don't pull this "omg don't u see all those hearts he makes", ok? that proves nothing lol. tbh i like him, imo he's charming, but he could be a big bitch for all we know. that's why i have nothing against people who don't like him. why can't people dislike/hate him then? everybody has a right to dislike ( ... )
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But since you wanted a reply so badly here you go. I just don't care enough to argue with a random person on the internet. You're the one came into my journal and tried to push your opinions at me when you know I don't agree with you. So yeah I'm not going to reply and give you the wankfest bullshit response you want. I'm not here to start internet wars. And btw you must be offended if you took the time to log into a sock puppet account or why else would you even be commenting and coming back here right now ( ... )
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