Comments | take_me_over_: A moment to be recorded

take_me_over_

A moment to be recorded

Jun 11, 2009 13:35

Last night cemented my hesistance towards trusting people. I now know that there is a distinct difference between giving people equal opportunity in the beginning to gain my trust and me giving it out equally from the beginning ( Read more... )

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_getonyourknees June 14 2009, 23:04:31 UTC

Melissa, I am going to be honest with you and say that I am still a wreck after listening with my head. No matter what you're going through I will be here and really I don't think any of us is ever going to find out which is best to listen to. I really like that line about if they can't handle your honesty they are a waste of your time. Had I read something like that sooner maybe I wouldn't be in such a pickle lol but you live and you learn.

<3 loveyouforalways.

take_me_over_ June 18 2009, 04:03:24 UTC

Ya- I suppose we all have particular ways to perceive and judge the world. You should look into mbti ( 16 personality types) it tells you a lot about your strengths and weaknesses. I've been obsessed with it actually. You can look at forums about everything from compatibility to career choices.

Miss you

drknockboots624 June 19 2009, 00:08:14 UTC

I just don't understand why you don't see that I am who you're looking for... You used to see it... What the f*** did I do to screw that up...? You shouldn't be going through this, you shouldn't be dealing with guys who treat you like shit... And yet, as great of a guy as I am willing and you KNOW that I CAN be and have been and especially now that I've found my drive and motivation for life, it blows my mind that you CHOOSE this pain for yourself and ignore the opportunity that has been staring you in the face since we first met 3 years ago ( ... )

take_me_over_ June 20 2009, 19:11:53 UTC

Yes, there is pain Andrew but that is life and I welcome it. I mostly write about negative feelings and relationships but that does not mean that is what is mostly important to me. What I write in here is what I am concluding and moving on from. I am not sympathetic to the past, I learn and look forward. And to be honest, I am not ready to find the right guy- I still need to explore. I can find love and respect in everyone, I can find it in the trees outside my door. I post when I am irrationally emotional or when I am reflective- do not use what I write as a measure for my spirit.

But I appreciate your kind words and I thank you for your concern.

drknockboots624 June 20 2009, 19:27:24 UTC

If you're not ready to find the right guy, you should stop going through the wrong ones, all you're going to do is hurt yourself and others like I've been hurt...

I don't know what you feel you need to explore about failed relationships with losers and assholes, but hey, it's your life...

I will keep my opinions to myself from now on...