First things first: Your 5 votes...
x x x x x Before We Start
Name: Call me Fuji. Or Emil, since that’s how you stamped me. :3
Age: Twenty-ish.
Do you want to be matched with a gender in particular? Female plzkthx.
Any character you do not want to be matched with? You're allowed one. Anise. I’d be looking for someplace to hide within minutes of meeting her. SO LOUD. SO CLINGY. SO CONSTANTLY IN NEED OF ATTENTION. D:
Your One And Only
What do you look for in a significant other? I don't actually look. I just sort of fall without meaning to. ^^; And the people I fall for are people who I just overall get on with well, and who I can respect in non-romantic terms as well as being attracted to them.
For traits that would be nice and that I think would compliment me well, I like silliness (silliness brings me out of my own awkward shell quickly), dorkiness/awkwardness of some kind, and being more outgoing than me. (But that said, lack of basic human competence/being unable to produce two living brain cells kills it dead immediately. I don’t need Einstein; I just need to not be the entire brainpower of the relationship.)
Three major turn-ons?
+ A laid-back nature. <3 I really like people who can just go with the flow and have fun with life, even when they're being strict with themselves. And who aren't so hyper in the process that I want to run away screaming.
+ A certain randomness. It’s fun to sit around and let your thoughts wander together. IDEAS ARE SHINY.
+ Catching on to my weird sense of humour and sending some of it back my way. I make comments that aren't nasty or snarky, but are a little dark-humour-ish, and this tends to surprise people since I'm seen as pretty innocent and sweet. But if you get that it's part of me and joke with me, more power to ya. <3
Three major turn-offs?
- Whiny, clingy, needy attention-sucking monster who is never willing to let me be alone and/or insists on a constant state of PDA. Basically: ATTENTION WHORE. I need my alone time sometimes.
- Having a stick up your ass/being SUPER-SERIOUS BUSINESS.
- This is going to sound weird coming from me, the tsundere extraordinaire, but if you refuse to ever give/accept hugs, it's going nowhere.
A pick-up line to use on you? ... pickup lines seem to involve more subtlety than I can be counted on to notice. Just say what you mean, plz. Or actions. Actions can speak louder than words; just make it clear.
What do you consider most important in a relationship? An underlying friendship and trust that can get you through the tough bits. If I’m not willing to have you as a close friend - and I’m only willing to have you as a close friend if I trust you - like hell am I willing to have you as a girlfriend. 8| Hugs are pretty important, too.
What do you think should never happen in a relationship/a lover should never do? Attempting to godmod the relationship. It takes two to freaking tango, not one-and-a-puppet. =_= Arf, arf! You’d better hurry up and write that apologyyyy~! OKAY I’LL STOP WITH REFERENCES NO ONE ELSE GETS NAO
Choices: (in your lover)
(Ohgod you're gonna hate me for this section....)
Brave or cowardly? I seem to like people whom I consider brave, but who consider themselves a bit cowardly.
Soft-spoken or snarky? You know what’s the most fun? Snark that looks soft-spoken. Because then you can make pleasantly morbid jokes at each other and have everyone else go OHGOD I CAN’T TELL IF THEY’RE BEING SERIOUS D:
Pessimistic or optimistic? Honestly, I can never tell whether a person is a pessimist or an optimist. ^^; I don't care.
Royalty or commoner? ... PERSON. :D
Impulsive or cautious? Overall or in terms of relating to each other? Because I'd probably be better off with someone who was more impulsive than me in terms of things like making the first move, but I can like either overall.
Passionate or tender? A little of both where each is appropriate.
Brawn or brains? Heart and dorkiness gets you way further with me than either brains OR brawn. :3 Though not being a total idiot is always appreciated or at least being the same kind of random geeky out there idiot as I am, orz.
Leader or follower? A little bit of a leader, but not an over-zealous or control-freaky one, and probably not the sort who loudly volunteers herself as the leader of every situation that needs one. Yay, more middle-ish ground.
Natural or sophisticated? Only sophisticated if sophistication is natural for her. So natural, though sophistication's not necessarily a turn-off unless it’s forced.
Love or sex? I'd prefer the first. :P
Marriage or free relationship? ... uh... I wouldn't go into a relationship believing we'd definitely get married someday - I mean, what if you turned out to only love the ideas of each other, but aren't actually compatible? - but that doesn't mean I'm immune to the idea or even think it's bad.
Cute or sexy? *blinkblink* I don't think these things are mutually exclusive. I can go for either. Cute is a personality thing for me, while sexy is a physical thing.
Serious or fun-loving? Fun-loving! I like fun. I am attracted to fun. 83
Time to be egocentric!
Describe your personality: (yes, again) I'm rather shy, self doubting and awkward, but I like to think I have a good heart? I'm smart, curious, and open-minded. I come across as "tough" and a bit guarded when getting to know people, and shy and really awkwardly aloof to some, but once you're a close friend, I am much goofier (srsly, if you’re my close friend, I can live in silly random idiot mode), less in-the-background, and kind of wear my heart on my sleeve. I have a bit of a tsundere streak, worry about the image I present to others, and am... a bit chronically indecisive. I put up a front of cynical pessimism to mask the fact that I am the WORLD'S BIGGEST doofy romantic sap at heart, and I have this annoying tendency to think well of anyone and everyone who I really get to know.
What really pisses you off? Intentional abuse of those weaker than you, attention whoring, and martyr complexes.
What do you think could turn someone off? My EPIC LACK OF ALL DECISION-MAKING SKILLS. D: And shyness to the point of stupidity. The latter goes away a bit once I know you consider me at least a friend, though… and then snaps right back into place if we’re in a group and I feel like the awkward one out.
On the other hand, what is your best quality? Apparently, I see-but-don't-really-care-about people's faults. So when it comes to the people I care about, I'll neither stick my head in the sand and pretend their problems don't exist nor be a jerk to them about things that are a little annoying, but not actually hurting me or anyone else. Once you've won my love, platonic or otherwise, it's pretty unconditional; you have to be a real ass to lose it.
What do you have to offer to your lover? A warm meal? A protector? Someone to snuggle with? Accepting them as they are, faults included? Idk, I’m a protective-but-not-smothering awkward dork with kind words for people who probably don’t deserve them. But I do feel like a bit of a wuss for not really living up to the "knight in shining armour" ideal I always wanted myself to become. .___.;;
A pick-up line you'd use: Pfft I am so not capable of that middle ground in subtlety. I either fail at expressing interest at all or trip all over myself like a blushing awkward idiot.
In the Tales world...
You two will have to meet somewhere. Tell us more about it. ... knowing me, she probably walks in on me doing something strange - reciting a poem and acting it out, figuring out note lengths for sheet music by banging out quarter notes on the wall, imitating voices I find amusing. I have a knack for making weird first impressions. ._.; Hopefully she either doesn’t form quick judgments, or likes the sort of traits I consider my strengths? Or maybe even finds my weirdness kind of cool?
What would you notice first? Or would they notice you instead? I usually just notice the overall "vibe" someone gives off, and how that vibe is expressed through their facial expressions, if that makes any sense. And people tend to not notice me first. I think one person has. Ever. And it wasn’t a romantic kind of notice.
It's time for a date! Describe your ideal date. Keep in mind that this is a Tales setting, though. I hate this question on every app it's on. A date is about two people having fun, and I don't know what that means unless I know who the other person involved is. My idea of fun is anything from "let's go to a museum and geek" to "let's paint a picture together and end up flinging paint all over the walls" to "let's make idiots of ourselves going ice skating with a bunch of kids." But basically, LET’S HAVE FUN! 8D
The way to someone's heart is through their stomach! Out of the Tales recipes, what would you make for someone? On the other hand, which one would you like them to make for you? For them, uh, I'd probably bake something. It's all I can really do, and even that's a bit risky. Vanilla and fruit flavours come out best. For me... anything without meat or tomatoes in it. ^^; Once you get past the things I hate/can't really eat, I'm not very picky about food. I do like lemon and orange flavours a lot.
If you two live together, where would it be? Chose a Tales city and explain your choice. Hmmmm. I'm partial to Dahngrest. I like the guilds system a lot, the city is gorgeous, there's a lot to go do and see, but as long as you have a nice quiet room at the end of the day, it's not overwhelming/too loud. Though I also might like Myorzo or Mizuho, since I'm a history and anthropology geek, as long as the other person could put up with it.
Your lover has decided to offer you the best item ever. As you unwrap the box, what do you hope is in it? And what do you think is in it? I hope it's a pair of armour!goggles. 8D What I'm likely to get from someone... uh... I like animals, so if we had just started going out, some animal-based accessory would be a safe bet. xD;
Monster attack! And they're coming straight for you! Where is your lover? About to sneak attack the monsters. I'm the decoy. :3
Your lover has to do a one-on-one fight soon. How will you spend the last night before it? Well, whatever she wants to me do (within reason, and that is not likely to get her more worked up), I'll support that. She's the one who's got to deal with the fight, not me.
And now that one boss that's been on your heels for half the game? Turns out he's particularly interested in you. Not like that, you pervert.. How does your loved one react? We share a moment of "WTF" before the whole team pummels him for all the other crap he's pulled anyway.
Monster att- oh wait, it's the final boss. Where are you and your lover on the battlefield? I'm as far away as I can be, since I'm not much for physical ability, she's either a ranged fighter/caster or frontlines fighter, but either way far enough away from me that neither of us lose focus. We're standing far enough apart on the battlefield that in order to attack one of us, the boss has to leave the other alone, so whoever's he's not paying attention to can stab him in the back. :D