Yes, but the sex with someone that I don't know doesn't feel all that special. But I guess it's good to know that it's not the end. If it's meant to work then it doesn't matter if you have sex at the first date or not, right? :)
You know I once read that gay people seem to be the opposite of straight people.
Straight people seem to go out and date and then if they like one another they have sex.
Gay people seem to go out and have sex and if they like it they start dating.
May or may not be true but funny none the less.
Seriously though at least you know you are sexually compatable, so thats out of the way.
Now you have to take a look at the bigger picture. Is he someone you want to date? Can date? Someone you want to know? Where do you see this in 5 years?
If you take a look and realize that this is something that can go somewhere then by all means go for it but if not at least you have made a new friend and had some nice times.
You should never feel cheap or worthless for having a good time!
Well, I just talked to my friend about this just now and he asked me the same questions basically. I told her that I really can't see this leading to anything more and she told me to think this as a fun night out or something. The more I hear people's thoughts the less slutty I feel. :)
I guess it's not that serious... Everything just gets so big and heavy in my head.
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Straight people seem to go out and date and then if they like one another they have sex.
Gay people seem to go out and have sex and if they like it they start dating.
May or may not be true but funny none the less.
Seriously though at least you know you are sexually compatable, so thats out of the way.
Now you have to take a look at the bigger picture. Is he someone you want to date? Can date? Someone you want to know? Where do you see this in 5 years?
If you take a look and realize that this is something that can go somewhere then by all means go for it but if not at least you have made a new friend and had some nice times.
You should never feel cheap or worthless for having a good time!
~Paul
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Well, I just talked to my friend about this just now and he asked me the same questions basically. I told her that I really can't see this leading to anything more and she told me to think this as a fun night out or something. The more I hear people's thoughts the less slutty I feel. :)
I guess it's not that serious... Everything just gets so big and heavy in my head.
(Funny userpic by the way)
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