Comments | tallywhack: Life's little ups and downs...

tallywhack

Life's little ups and downs...

Apr 09, 2005 21:59

It's been a few weeks since an update. Unfortunately it's a Saturday night and am sitting in front of the computer writing when I should be out socializing and having a good time. Therein lies the crux of the situation; I sometimes wonder if I will ever really enjoy going out. I really enjoy hanging out with my close friends but I don't necessarily ( Read more... )

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krypticleo April 10 2005, 08:34:40 UTC

I hate the bars too...but I went out anyway tonight. I still hate it. We should get a group of people that we like together and plans other things.

hrhmsh April 10 2005, 21:32:43 UTC

A post!?!? I thought you were in a persistent vegetative state.

shiftyeyeddogg April 11 2005, 21:36:38 UTC

AHAHAHA! That shouldn't be funny ... but it totally is.

shiftyeyeddogg April 11 2005, 21:40:48 UTC

You're not weird, and you're not the only one. I've realized recently that I'm not much of a fan of 'going out' -- the times that I enjoy it, I enjoy being with my friends, but I don't really care about (and I might even dislike) the other people. It seems to take a certain type to really, truly enjoy the 'going out' club/bar experience, but you shouldn't feel bad that you're not one of those people. Maybe you should be grateful for it, actually.

tallywhack April 11 2005, 22:29:16 UTC

i don't mind the going out part.. but i think i mainly dislike the gay bar part :P just run into typical egotistical idiots that are using their credit cards to buy $1 drinks. i know this is a major generality, but I have to go out to a dance club/bar and enjoy it. maybe i need more friends around me to feel comfortable and confident? hrhmsh doesn't help when he wears see through shirts with wifebeaters on under them! no one can feel confident around that :P

tallywhack April 11 2005, 22:30:01 UTC

** "... but I have YET to go out to a dance club/bar..."

shiftyeyeddogg April 11 2005, 22:50:47 UTC

Okay, that helps make sense of that sentence above. I thought maybe I had lost the ability to read and/or comprehend ...

Obviously going out is fun -- but yeah, that whole club/bar experience is weird. The whole meat market thing makes me uncomfortable, and the whole setting reeks of ego and plastic-ness (sure, it's a word) and all that other garbage. Like I said above, I don't necessarily think it's a *bad* thing not to enjoy that stuff, but it is a weird realization.

I'll refrain from making any further "Hermish" cracks because I feel strangely charitable today.