Comments | tang: we talked

tang

we talked

Jan 04, 2005 22:33

i got tired of waiting for him to call me. so i called him about 7:30ish and asked him what he was doing. he was getting ready to watch the football game at 8pm. i asked him to tape it (b/c he has the ablity to do that) and come over and talk with me. voices were raised about that. he argued with me on that. i finially said, "the night of that ( Read more... )

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epiphanyofhope January 5 2005, 21:50:02 UTC

This "moving too fast" can really be an excuse.

I have heard a gazillion times before.

but really... tang January 5 2005, 23:46:07 UTC

i agree that it is moving too (WAY TOO) fast. but the whole meeting his family thing... wasn't. i really enjoyed myself at his parent's house.

talked to him this afternoon, and he's gonna call me at 9 pm (his phone min. are free then- he only has a cell). he still wants to take me to his cousins wedding on the 15th. i can't wait for that... it's gonna be fun dancing with him (granted i can't, but it's going to be fun).

when we ended the converstation last night he gave me a huge hug that lasted like 5 min. and he held me tight (just like i did). it's not cool with us... b/c we need to work things out... but it will be fine between us. it's just one of the bumps that couples face... it's just hard and sometimes it hurts.

gtrnvox January 6 2005, 03:41:36 UTC

he really likes me, but things moved to fast.... [snip]
and some other things (that i'm not going to say in my lj).

If personal purity is at stake (which seems to be the implication here), then my first question would be what is HE doing to prevent things from moving too fast in the future? I think you're equally responsible for whatever takes place between the two of you, but -- should dating lead to marriage -- is he capable of assuming the role of spiritual headship in the relationship and take responsibility for setting the right boundaries from the very beginning?

but i told him that i'm tired of driving (wearing the "pants" in the relationship) that i'm handing him the steering wheel.Unfortunately, if it wasn't his idea to take the lead in the relationship, there's little chance he's going to assume that role just because you let go of the wheel. Actions speak louder than words; no matter how many times he says he's head over heels and doesn't want to lose you, what is he doing to keep you? If you have to guilt him into ( ... )