so I'm not calling...

[tang]

I'm not going to call him tonight. Let's see if he calls me

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[gtrnvox]

but he's making not attempt to work on it with me

And that's a valuable observation right there. It appears (pretty clearly) that the two of you want different things. There's nothing wrong with that, it just means that you don't agree on a relationship.

[tang]

can i ask your name? and do you work in a church?

b/c you're hitting EVERYTHING i'm thinking.

[gtrnvox]

You're right, I should introduce myself: my name is Andy. I don't work in a church, although I do help out with my church's music ministry when needed. =)

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[tang]

i broke up with him... well not exactly directly him... his voice mail

i really don't want to talk right now

sorry