I don't think you CAN tell them that. It just leaves the diagnosis open for argument. Rather, you can get to the crux of the problem. Whether or not they're clingy, creepy or cute as a button, you don't enjoy their company (no reason required) and would prefer to spend your time elsewhere (no alternative location need be mentioned.)
"I'm not articulate enough to explain it! I just don't enjoy being around you all that much. It doesn't have to be any particular reason, I just don't like the way *I* act when I'm with you. You push buttons in me that I don't like pushed."
I'd probably say, "this behaviour makes me uncomfortable" and then explain why. I'm a big fan of getting things right out there. I figure that, if people can't handle a discussion that's framed in a polite and considerate way (which involves respect for my feelings as well as theirs), they probably don't belong in my life.
Maybe that means I'm a jerk, but it saves space for the people who truly are good friends, and it reduces my long-term stress even if it causes short-term stress.
New name? Must be a Real Life reference. I went and looked and her blog is still named "heterotic but not hetero" and that stopped making sense the moment I finally understood it. ;-)
Heehee. It's one of the little subtitles that appear at the beginning of every Futurama episode. It made me giggle, so it gets its fifteen minutes on LJ.
"Government-created killer nanorobot infection" is still my favourite, though. (From an episode of The Office.)
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It's me, not you. Really.
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Well, not gonna play.
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Maybe that means I'm a jerk, but it saves space for the people who truly are good friends, and it reduces my long-term stress even if it causes short-term stress.
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Also, I love your new name. With the eyeballs. It makes me happy :)
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"Government-created killer nanorobot infection" is still my favourite, though. (From an episode of The Office.)
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