Social Graces-HELP PLEASE

[tazladys]

Ok, so I am not always the best in the social graces thing-so I am in need of some suggestions/guidance here. Here's my situation: I am very interested in someone, but unsure as how to go forward from this point. I have been interested for quite sometime and just have kind of well,ya know...

Thanks Tons ;)

Comments

[anansi133]

all things being equal, if you know someone's interested in you, they themselves become more interesting

[tazladys]

Thank You! I am extremely grateful that we already have an established friendship that I have always cherished deeply.

Loves

[lunarhawke]

send them a message and invite them to coffee, tea, a small outing...explore the possibilities, if it doesn't work, you haven't invested that much, except for the amount of time you spent getting up the courage to ask them out...good luck, hugs, and best wishes to you, Taz!

[tazladys]

Thank you so much. I will give it a go ;)

Loves

[cheerfulolygirl]

Wow, not my area of expertise either :D

At the very least, if the person is reading this post, they are forewarned that you are interested in someone, so it won't be as much of a surprise when you approach them.

(Of course, as a proponent of consensual non-monogamy, I would highly recommend that the husband-creature be aware of any romantic or sexual relationships you develop.)

I guess for me, if a woman expressed a romantic/sexual interest in me and I turned her down, I would want her to respect that. If I changed my mind in the future, I would let her know. Maybe an annual "Still no?" would be okay :-D *silly*

On the other hand, I might return the interest!

[tazladys]

The husband creature is cool with it. I would definately respect the other person's wishes. He is especially cool with my having interests in women;)

You and I both know the person that I am intrested in ;)

[tazladys]

The person has read this post*giggling*