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[tbpnemo]

I don't deal very well with passive-aggressive people, and it appears that over time I am asked to deal with a slowly increasing number of them

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[tbpnemo]

To be honest you really aren't who I'm talking about. If there's a concern you usually bring it up after a while, or if it's a sensitive concern I can usually get at least a hint or two relatively easily from other people or just knowing your behavior patterns.

I don't think it's really anything a person can do anything about. Some people are just not good at sharing what they have to say about things, which would be fine except that they also expect you to already know what they would have to say.

As a general thing, try to be more open with yourself and the people around you. It's not a request tailored to you, but if everybody starts doing it eventually things will become more open in everybody's life.

[sagejackal]

You need to move back to Boston so I can accost you in person. :|

[tbpnemo]

Man I can barely afford Montana, let alone Boston x3 I'm kind of surprised we missed one another so often at AC though, I didn't see Dax more than like 5 times the entire weekend.

[sagejackal]

I was so fucking all over the place at AC. I missed a lot of people, even though I saw a fuckton. AC is just one of those cons that's too big for it's own good. :p

[roycalbeck]

*throws you a mitt-full of Hell*

Think fast! -:D

[tbpnemo]

Oh god how do I do this I am not good at catching

[metasigma]

Mmmmmm, nah I side with you on this one Benni. I know what you're talking about when someone says there isn't a problem, but acts like it (Atleast that's what I'm getting out of it damn 5am cobwebs) and it causes drama. I remember myself doing that to a lot of people (Hell I'm sure that I did it to you guys at some point which I know wasn't right) but it is a pain to deal with and you have a right to express your anger regarding it

[tbpnemo]

We should grab lunch at some point. Not that there's anywhere truly amazing to eat out here, but we'll figure something out.

[metasigma]

Indeed, I don't have my schedule for the next few weeks yet, but once I find out I'll give you a post and let you know what's available, sound ok to you?

[tbpnemo]

Email me at ltmuffin@gmail.com, keeps everything a little more private.

[mr_cullen]

I think you'll only really catch hell from those types who think people are ALWAYS talking about them when folk make entries like this.

THank God I'm not one of them.