Thank you Mara. I hope everything is ok with you. I haven't visit your LJ lately. but I alwys go there to see how are you, even if I don't comment. *hugs you tigh* :D
Dearest, Despite you having hinted what was going on before, I am so sorry to hear what happened. The complicated feelings you're having right now... they never really go away, I'm afraid. But I can assure you that, even if it feels impossible right now, it does get better. Slowly, the moments in which you don't think about it stretch longer and longer, and even when you do, there is something soft between you and the pain. I know nothing can really offer comfort in the fist months; I remember. But humans have this incredible ability to survive anyway, and our mind has its ways to keep the pain at bay. Just hold on a little longer.
Just know that, if you feel the need to rant, to ask, if you think that talking to someone who's been there not long ago may even remotely help, I'm here for you. ♥.
♥ Thank you so much, Lago ♥ I'm so sorry to know that you've been there too. You're right, it's not easy, but we manage to hold on through the pain somehow. I'm dealing with it like I did when he was ill - one day at the time and enjoying all the good things I can find. Sometimes this painfull feeling is sharp like a knife and I start crying like crazy (usualy when I'm alone). Then I keep on. Work is helping too, but my friends (like you) are the bih help in all this process. *hugs you tight* :D
I didn't know. I"m sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes according to plan. I wish you the best of luck. You've been the best friend that i've had on this livejournal. :)
No words can convey the .... everything. I hope your doing well.
♥ Thank you ♥ *tight hug* You are so sweet ^.^ I'm doing better now, although I have some painful times too. To see his name in the tombstone makes everything too real and it's breaking my heart all over again. We celebrate the all Saints day (November the first), but I don't do it. I'm back to LJ and I will be ok again. I have friends like you to make wish to get in here and be with you. *hug* :D
Thank you *hugs you back* To hug and to feel hugged is a great and wonderful feeling, it really conforts me. To read your great fics is also the best, lol. :D
Thank you Adaia. It's been a month and yet sometimes it seems like years. I feel too tired but things are getting better. I'm glad to see you here *happy grin* :D
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Despite you having hinted what was going on before, I am so sorry to hear what happened.
The complicated feelings you're having right now... they never really go away, I'm afraid. But I can assure you that, even if it feels impossible right now, it does get better. Slowly, the moments in which you don't think about it stretch longer and longer, and even when you do, there is something soft between you and the pain.
I know nothing can really offer comfort in the fist months; I remember. But humans have this incredible ability to survive anyway, and our mind has its ways to keep the pain at bay. Just hold on a little longer.
Just know that, if you feel the need to rant, to ask, if you think that talking to someone who's been there not long ago may even remotely help, I'm here for you. ♥.
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I'm so sorry to know that you've been there too. You're right, it's not easy, but we manage to hold on through the pain somehow. I'm dealing with it like I did when he was ill - one day at the time and enjoying all the good things I can find. Sometimes this painfull feeling is sharp like a knife and I start crying like crazy (usualy when I'm alone). Then I keep on. Work is helping too, but my friends (like you) are the bih help in all this process.
*hugs you tight*
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No words can convey the .... everything. I hope your doing well.
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You are so sweet ^.^ I'm doing better now, although I have some painful times too. To see his name in the tombstone makes everything too real and it's breaking my heart all over again. We celebrate the all Saints day (November the first), but I don't do it.
I'm back to LJ and I will be ok again. I have friends like you to make wish to get in here and be with you.
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Thats good.
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To hug and to feel hugged is a great and wonderful feeling, it really conforts me.
To read your great fics is also the best, lol.
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It's been a month and yet sometimes it seems like years. I feel too tired but things are getting better.
I'm glad to see you here *happy grin*
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