while it may make me feel like a whiny toddler, it's so true. i'm going to go nap right now (not because i want to give up, just because i got much less than enough sleep the last two nights).
The past two weeks of the 2:1 class we're taking has been about communication and conflict/resolution. They keep pushing "HALTB."
Don't have a serious discussion / make important decisions / argue / fight when you're...
Hungry Angry Lonely Tired Bored (and as an aside, he mentioned "Drunk" as well)
If we're any of those things, we're supposed to eat, cool off, get hugs, take a nap, or take a walk before proceeding. Good advice even outside of marriage, I think. Probably the most valuable info from that class yet (that I didn't already have spelled out for me via other counsel).
Comments 4
( ... )
Reply
Reply
Reply
Don't have a serious discussion / make important decisions / argue / fight when you're...
Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired
Bored
(and as an aside, he mentioned "Drunk" as well)
If we're any of those things, we're supposed to eat, cool off, get hugs, take a nap, or take a walk before proceeding. Good advice even outside of marriage, I think. Probably the most valuable info from that class yet (that I didn't already have spelled out for me via other counsel).
Reply
Leave a comment