Orientation is not a trend.

[technicolornina]

I wasn't going to write this, because I know I'm putting myself in a position to lose friends; then I said "fuck it," anybody who thinks I have no right to be hurt and calling it out probably wasn't my friend to begin with.

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[adawnrae]

Ach, sweetheart, I am sorry this happened to you. While I generally consider myself heterosexual, I have been with and been in love with members of both sexes and a couple that would most likely identify as "other," so I feel eminently qualified to speak about this:
If you are a good person, no matter what your orientation, you don't cheat on your partner.* If you do screw around, can't be bothered to treat your partner in a loving fashion, then you aren't a good person and need to stay out of relationships until you grow the fuck up. Gay, straight, bi or whatever, your "orientation" gives you no leave to be a creep./rant

[ext_1025174]

Hi, darling (it's still me--mostly moved to Dreamwidth following Release 88 over here

[ext_1025174]

*HUG*

[pyrosgf]

You know, I told you Thursday night why I didn't write more about us. I felt like it was something special. Something I didn't want to go into every detail about.

I also told you I'd never been with a girl. If you wanna take what I said and turn it into something it wasn't that's fine. This is what you do. You turn everything into something it isn't. I care about you. If you can't fucking see that I can't change that and if you're going to continue to flip out on me at every little thing I don't know what else to do.

The Goo Goo Dolls had nothing to do with hot boys as far as recording. You know I love that song. And I find it ironic that you talk about me and being like that over guys since I haven't had sex with a guy since I've been here, nor since I've been talking to you.

You're done, that's fine. Think the worst of me.

[ext_1025174]

That's right--make it all about you. You really have no idea, do you?

What I see is someone like the Chicago musical: "I know a girl who tells so many lies, anything that's true would truly cross her eyes." Turn it into something it wasn't?? Bitch, you told me the very first time we met: "I like both." THERE IS NO AMBIGUITY THERE. Then on your journal you say it was all theory. HOW STUPID DO YOU THINK I AM??

[ext_1025174]

And just sayin'? A relationship, any relationship--romantic, platonic--is about GIVE AND TAKE. All you do is take, and all I do is give. That's not how it works. You care? Please, that's not even funny. You care about yourself.

Just one other thing: In case you hadn't noticed, I was celibate for TWO YEARS. Does that make me less interested in women? Because that, right there, is your argument: "I look and I drool and I fantasize but I'm not having sex with them so by god, NONE OF MY REACTIONS COUNT." Bull. Shit.

[lordhellebore]

I'm so sorry this happened :( It sucks to trust and then be betrayed like this.