What makes it worse is that this was/is a pattern of behaviour. When I agreed to try to patch up our relationship after several weeks of abusive behaviour in which she literally left me in tears almost every single night, she didn't even apologise for what she put me through--she actually said outright that she didn't remember it and accused me tacitly of lying when I said I didn't remember what the final fight was that led me to block her, but did remember some of the other shit that went down that led me to that decision.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
She proceeded to claim I was demanding that she change in order to be my friend
Sometimes, it's either stop being an asshole or I will stop being your friend. That is not unreasonable, really. It's a statement of fact, and if she doesn't want to improve herself as a person, tough luck. She is not entitled to your time and friendship.
I sincerely appologize for your ex-friend being a moron; good on you for dumping her.
On a hopefully happier note, would you mind if I friended you? It'd be nice to have someone to talk Sailor Moon with, even though I don't really post much at my own journal.
Sure! I should warn you, my big fandom is Adam Lambert, so a lot of what goes here is, well . . . Adam. But Sailor Moon was my first love and is always welcome. ♥
He's the cutie in my icon and he's ridiculously talented. Go look him up on YouTube--"Soaked acoustic" and "Broken English" are my faves, but you should also check out "If I Had You" and "Trespassing" for a more comprehensive view of just how insane his range and style is. (Anything labeled as coming off an album called "Beg for Mercy" is old, poorly-produced, and a renegade album released by a bottom-feeder you should pay no attention to.) PREPARE FOR YOUR CONVERSION :-D
Friending back! I'm also over on Dreamwidth, if you are.
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
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Sometimes, it's either stop being an asshole or I will stop being your friend. That is not unreasonable, really. It's a statement of fact, and if she doesn't want to improve herself as a person, tough luck. She is not entitled to your time and friendship.
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On a hopefully happier note, would you mind if I friended you? It'd be nice to have someone to talk Sailor Moon with, even though I don't really post much at my own journal.
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And... friended. :D
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He's the cutie in my icon and he's ridiculously talented. Go look him up on YouTube--"Soaked acoustic" and "Broken English" are my faves, but you should also check out "If I Had You" and "Trespassing" for a more comprehensive view of just how insane his range and style is. (Anything labeled as coming off an album called "Beg for Mercy" is old, poorly-produced, and a renegade album released by a bottom-feeder you should pay no attention to.) PREPARE FOR YOUR CONVERSION :-D
Friending back! I'm also over on Dreamwidth, if you are.
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