I am right there with you. I have two girls (ages 2 1/2 and 1). Their dad works a really lousy night shift (he leaves at 5:15pm and doesn't get home till 5:30am, then sleeps till around 2 or 3). 97% of the time I feel like a single mom, and then I have to listen to him and his infamous quote of "What do you need a break from, you don't work?!"
hunnie having a man around doesnt help it just makes more work for us, honestly having a man is like having another child. sure they might work but come on like taking care of our children isn't a job. And when they do finally watch them for like an hour or two you have a bigger mess than what you started with. It's like u just wanna scream at um. If he says that you shouldn't be tired because you don't have a job let him spend all day taking care of the baby he will learn real quick that having a baby is the real job.
i haven't even had my baby yet. but he has a "job" and i dont. i feel when i have her i ll be the only one taking care of her. he doesn't take care of his others when he gets them on the weekends i mean it takes for ever for him to tend to their needs. so i know i'll be the only one taking care of her.
Ohh yes, only it's more like, he's too "tired", like WE aren't the ones chaseing a baby all over the house all day, and when they take a nap, we have to clean up from them tearing out, and when we FINALLY have a chance to relax, the baby is back up! lol
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