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[tehanu_chan]

Dear Grandma:

I didn't get the chance to meet Grandpa, but I'm sure he would have preferred that you have a good time watching... Oh, I dunno, a musical that really interest you, instead of being sad cuz you don't have a chance to go to the cemetery (chance that you have but you prefer the guilt)...

...

I know this is unfair to her, because she was

Comments

[laifan]

Yeah I agree with you. It's tough when people lose someone so close but those that are still alive need to move on. They can't spend the rest of their lives mourning for the dead person, no matter how cruel it sounds. True, it's still sad when we think of them and it will always be, but we can't do anything about it besides trying to do ouy best at being happy. I'm sure that's what the people who passed on would want.

[tehanu_chan]

My thoughts exactly.
^^

[makoso]

a veces ir al cementerio te ayuda a seguir adelante.
es la manera q tenemos algunos de recordar a alguien.

[tehanu_chan]

No voy a discutir lo de seguir adelante porque no tengo bases para hacerlo, pero lo de recordar a alguien, pues creo que tenés más posibilidades de recordarlo estando en el lugar donde esa persona habitaba, viendo algún objeto de esa persona persona o que esa persona te dio o simplemente con tus propios recuerdos. Por otro lado, desde la perspectiva del muerto, creo que sería horrible que tengan que ir a ver mi lápida para recordarme...