Yes! You're FAT! Deal!

[tephra]

Ugh! Can you believe this pathetic bag of hormones? She asked her boyfriend if he thought she was too heavy, he answered that he loved her as she was but that she could stand to lose a little weight. Now she's DEVASTATED and CRYING and BEGGING for affirmation that she's "beautiful

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[pootrootbeer]

We're just scared that maybe you WON'T lie, and actually tell us that our dick IS too small, and unlike when you're really fat there's no surgery that can correct that.

Yeah, there's that thing where they cut the support ligament, which gives you an extra inch but it always points downwards. And they can inject stuff along the shaft to increase girth, but then you'd end up with a munchkin tip.

So yeah, guys only ask questions that they know the answers to won't crush them.

[kielle]

*nodding in agreement/sympathy* This is why I like guys. Guys aren't as dumb as some girls think they are. Nuh-uh. :)

[eyelid]

Yeah, there's that thing where they cut the support ligament, which gives you an extra inch but it alwayspoints downwards. And they can inject stuff along the shaft to increase girth, but then you'd end up with a munchkin tip.

wow, poot.... you seem to know a LOT about these proceedures... *grin*

fattitude

[eyelid]

I don't know... as a woman who is somewhat programmed by society (I weigh less than 110 and sometimes I STILL feel like I have fat I could lose) I can sympathize with her...

Sometimes we ask these things for reassurance... like "you look at these images of sprawled sexy half-naked women all day long in our society... but you still like me, right, even though I will never be like them?" The reason why should be obvious...

I have in fact had guys ask me the same sorts of questions (even the dick size one) and I have always been very considerate of them in answering. Generally my answer is something like "you know, it doesn't really matter to me one way or another... I think you're gorgeous..."

I think many guys will open up about their insecurities if they trust you enough.

If you guys don't have these problems, that's very cool...it's wonderful to be able to cast aside the images society sticks you with 24-7 and say "okay, well, that Victoria's Secret catalogue is just unrealistic."

[pentomino]

If I had read your journal this far back, I might not have been so nervous in the other post and I might even be in possession of a plane ticket RIGHT NOW.