Drama

[texasknight]

I'm sick. So much so that I actually had to call in to work. I HATE doing that! It makes me feel like such a fucking gold-brick! I just could not get my body to function tho. So @ 07.45L I had to swallow my pride and call in sick for the first time in MANY MANY MANY moons. I have worked with colds, aches, pains, fevers of 103degrees, flu, and

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My thoughts

[chron_job]

There is no avoiding Drama.

But, every day, we are presented with choices wherein we can act to either propagate, or minimize, Drama.

Some people produce Drama out of the vacuum of the universe. I try not to think badly of them.

The average person just absorbs Drama from their environment, and then re-emits it on a similar scale. This Drama bounces around until it hits someone else.

Some few special people absorb Drama, but refuse to re-emit it, taking it out of the universe.

My goal is, whenever possible, to be the third kind of person. I don't always succeed, but that's what goals are for.

-= Nat.

p.s. Remove the word "Drama" and add the word "Karma", and you have my philosophy of life. :)

Re: My thoughts

[texasknight]

VERY well said my friend!

Re: My thoughts

[chasingari]

Very well put indeed.

[spiritbine]

Drama is like air to some people.
When their lives are going well and they are relaxed, they dont need as much, yet when they are scraping by day by day just barely getting by, drama seems to be the fuel that gets them through the day, and I think we all have done this from time to time.... but there is another way.

Compassion, understanding, and doing the best you can.

It is ideas like this that should guide us... its just that some people have big problems with this, cause these ideas involve looking inward and at oneself, and that is something that people are often very afraid to do.

- un

[texasknight]

yer right on that last bit Un. I am afraid to look in on myself, because what's in there scares the leapin lovin shit out of me!

[ignifer_glacie]

No harm done here Mr. Wolfie :)
Once I found out what you were so sad about I informed you that I am still your friend and am still Lucinda. After that you seemed to get happier and I didn't lose a friend. :D
So I wouldn't really call that drama so much as personal feelings which you are allowed to have ya' know. Next time though, I would suggest going straight to the source of your un-happiness and informing them of why.
*squish*

[texasknight]

*squish* I know hun.

[chasingari]

Sorry about the work you missed buddy, though you have a considerably comendable record.

As for everything else, I've been in that position myself and understand how much pain can be felt. I take this into account everytime we meet. I wasn't harmed nor do I think that you fostered any drama. You had feelings and you eventually vented to people(even though it was somewhat obvious what was wrong). There's a big difference between what you did and causing drama. Unfortunately though, everyone from school children to adults know that once that special person commits to someone else, we must bite back and act accodingly, in face of our pain, or else inspire true drama.

I know you'll continue to try. Sorry it sucks so much, but I'd like us to be friends.

You are truely a good person.

[texasknight]

thanks dude. I really appreciate that. :) I want us to remain friends too.