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Jan 23, 2014 10:02

Ребёнок провёл весь снежный день в симбиозе со своим DSi, докладывает о результатах ( Read more... )

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mamaracha January 23 2014, 15:42:04 UTC
Ну кам он, Лен, операцию просто так не делают. Сравнила жопу с пальцем.

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tfuka January 23 2014, 16:01:13 UTC
ну а я не могу понять как, ну вот не могу. мне в четырнадцать лет тоже сильно хотелось быть кем-то другим, я тогда просто не знала что можно стать например мальчиком, таких вариантов не было. если бы были, возможно я бы ими воспользовалась и сейчас раздавала бы тебе советы:-)

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mamaracha January 23 2014, 16:48:56 UTC
Dude, why don't you read about transsexual children? I just read a book where this was discussed in one chapter. It's really so much more than "I wanted to be someone else".

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tfuka January 23 2014, 17:19:44 UTC
they don't fit into my dream of a genderless future, but i guess i should read something on that, yes, i know nothing on the topic..

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allochkag January 23 2014, 19:29:04 UTC
I know a younger child who is in the same boat. She used to be in Ben's hockey team, so she is 11-12 now at most and she already knows

She goes by a boy's name already ....

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tfuka January 23 2014, 21:25:46 UTC
but how can you be so sure of your sexual identity even before the puberty? they are supposed to be not ready sexually, that's why you are not allowed to have sex with them, they are just not ready yet. it's like with the alcohol thing, you can get married, have kids, choose to die for your country, but not allowed to have a drink between 18 and 21. and this kids can choose their own sex, but can't have it? doesn't make scene!

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allochkag January 23 2014, 21:28:08 UTC
I don't think that girl is ready for a sex-change operation, but she does feel very uncomfortable being a girl

I don't think it's about sex and whether she is attacted to boys or girls, it's about not being comfortable in her own body

She looks like a boy, she loves doing boy things. I believe that at this point the family works with a therapist to see how to handle this. First step: she wants to be known to the world as a boy, she wants to have boy's name

She is not doing anything irreversible at this point

As for the Nathan guy - let's wait and hear what they tell us tomorrow

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allochkag January 24 2014, 17:47:53 UTC
was there anything interesting today about the boy? I drove too early to work and missed the show ;(

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