I have a new goal.

[thanenerakus]

I've decided recently that I'm going to focus on becoming more aggressive towards becoming confident. I mean this in the sense of being comfortable with approaching, talking to and, obviously, asking out women. I had an epiphany the other night about some truths that made me realize this would be a good goal for me

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[mistress_frisky]

1. Stop being afraid of coming off arrogant. Arrogance and confidence are synonymous only to people who have no confidence.
2. You are intelligent, handsome and funny, lighten up on yourself.
3. As you get older, laughter is more important than any body shape - and this is true of women as well so don't get too hung up on 'attractive' in the search for a partner.
4. Life, including the love life, can be exactly as you want it to be.
5. The moment most people become their most charming, attractive selves is when they stop being afraid of how they're coming across. I think your goal should be to have fun, the light of your joy will pull people towards you.

Thus speaks the Oracle-In-Training. :)

approaching women

[madreluna]

In approaching women it is key to smile and have an open stance. No hats, no crossed arms, not turned head. Look like they have the best information you've ever heard when you're listening. Between your looks, that smile, and a look of attentiveness and openness...you can pick the one you want like a ripe fruit off a tree. Go get 'em handsome!

[webelaffin]

WAY TO GO HOI PUNK BRAT!!! I applaud this!

I agree with everything Michelle and Carrie said too, except maybe the hat thing. Depending on the hat, it can add some fun to your persona.

I think any woman who snags you will realize you are treasure beyond measure, and she's lucky to have you.

March on....great goal!