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[thatzwheniluvu]

If you don’t respect your self then others won’t respect you either. At this rate you are going to find your self in the same position that you were in before; hurt and used. Only this time I won’t feel badly for you because you have chosen this path. I apologize and I wish there was some way to help you but I can’t because you are too worried

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[_starless_]

Thats exactly how I feel about Jen..

IF only she would realize it.

[thatzwheniluvu]

and the its the wosrt thing to just sit and watch, knowing that you cant do anything about it!

[_starless_]

Yup.

I know the feeling.

Eventually I just got so sick of it.

Thats why we stopped being friends..well partly why anyway.

She just kept sleeping around (with random guys)..and then she would get so hurt/depressed when they didn't want to 'date' her.

I told her like a million times that all they want is sex. You have to respect yourself then others will respect you.

She mistook that useful advice as me 'telling' her what to do.

Oh well. I tried.

[thatzwheniluvu]

yea, I know how that is, I feel like I have been there before and I am here again. And it seems like the harder you try to prevent the hurt the more pissed they get at you; when you are the only ones around them that actually care about their well-being and they hate you more than anything. So much for being a good friend; at least we tried! :-(