Rippings and endings

[the_egglady]

I guess it's done. David and Jess are done. He's my son and she's my best friend, and there is so much pain here. He's still obsessed with a girl he dated in high school, found her again and started kissing on her. Nothing more happened, I don't think, but Jess isn't one to take that crap. She is still so desperately in love with him--it truly

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[bleuberi21]

*tight hugs*

[the_egglady]

Thank you.

[motherpockets]

You know I love you all and I don't take sides. I will hug whoever is there and I won't ask any questions. But I am here.

[the_egglady]

Bless you. I have decided, after knowing you and Jessica and my mother, that strength comes in short packages. I can't wait to see you.

[motherpockets]

Eager to see you, too! When I am faced with a situation where I have an opinion that it would do absolutely no good to express, I just try to love everybody in the situation and know that they are on the path that is right for them, even if they (and I) can't see the end of that path. If indeed, there is an end to any path! I'm not sure there ever is an end to anything.

[the_egglady]

Yeah, that seems best, but it's hard. I don't think David is on the right path, though. But it's not my decision. I think he will come to realize he's made the biggest mistake of his short life, and he can't fix it. She isn't one to set herself up to be hurt again. He has burned this bridge, and I don't believe he will find someone again who will care for him like she does. But, like all of us, he will learn to live with the consequences of his actions. At least unless there is another suicide attempt that's better planned than the last.

[rowangolightly]

Oh honey! I'm just shocked and so sorry for everybody. Believe me, I understand not wanting to have it mentioned. And I truly do get the pain and the angst. Of course, I won't take sides.

Love you muchly!

[the_egglady]

Bless you. Both of them are pretty adamant that they don't want outside friendships to be affected. Of course, some will anyway, but I am glad they both share this attitude.

I hope to see you soon. I miss you!

[rowangolightly]

I absolutely won't get this and will not take sides. Everybody hurts; there's no reason to add to it!

Miss you too! I won't be out first weekend; a bit painful for me too, for other reasons.

Haven't got the bodice remade; humping to get stuff done to pay rent. But I will do it as soon as possible.

[the_egglady]

Bless you, sweetheart. Not that I ever thought you would be one who would take sides. You are one of the smoothest people to have around during someone else's crisis, simply for that reason. You understand this crap.

Bodice later? I'm not a high-demand client. Not a problem, lady. Rent is entirely understandable. I will be happy to see you whenever you make it out. Incidentally, my cousin Teri will be there also--you met her at supper one night. She is arranging for there to be interpreters at faire again, so I will get to see her more than usual for a faire season. She's the sister I never had, and it's a real pain that we don't get to see each other more often, so any increase in the time we can spend is great!!

[hdsqrl]

((Sending hugs))

Endings like this are so painful. :(

[the_egglady]

Yes. I've been divorced myself, and truly hope that my situation didn't cause this much pain to those close to us. We didn't live with someone else, so I think it may have been better, but probably not much. My divorce, I could handle, but that of someone I love is wrenching.

[akaemilyrose]

Hugs & love for all of you.

[the_egglady]

Thank you, Em.