that sucks that he is acting that way. but if you think about it everybody is shallow to a certain extent. it is jsut the truth. as much as we may think that we are not, we all are. think about it. you are not going to want to start a relationship with someone who you think is ugly. maybe after you get to know them you will but looks do play a huge part in the starting of relationships. and also. if you dont know the person and you say that you like them, it is all based on looks because you have no idea of how that person might really be. so yeah. oh and by the way, i was saying what i did about my mom because i know that the only person who reads my livejournal is you. so yeah.
Re: that sucksthe_end_againSeptember 14 2004, 16:14:25 UTC
well yeah thats true, im mean im not trying to say that looks have no effect at all in a relationship, because i know that they do, but they arent as big in a relationship and he makes them out to be, and no, its not true that i wouldnt want to start a relationship with someone ugly, if i liked that person enough and they liked me too and i wanted a relationship then i wouldnt care if they were ugly or not. And the thing is with him, he's shallow to the extent of which looks effect his actions too much, they way someone looks gets way too much in the way of his feelings for people. And im also not denying that people never have occasional crushes on people just because of the way it looks, i mean we all are human, but like i said, its not a way of life. But with him he really acts that way. Im not saying people arent shallow, im just saying that he's more shallow then most people are, and he bases too much emphesis on looks. So yeah, thats that
Re: that sucksthe_end_againSeptember 14 2004, 16:16:45 UTC
plus, why would you start off a relationship with someone you barely know anyway? so therefore looks may have a big part in starting off interests, but not relastionships, if you like the person enough then you shouldnt care what they look like
I love you Ari. I'm sorry that you and Ben aren't gettin' along and such. But don't worry, if you ever need a romantic walk in the park you've got me here. And, You don't still like him do you?
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I love you Ari. I'm sorry that you and Ben aren't gettin' along and such. But don't worry, if you ever need a romantic walk in the park you've got me here. And, You don't still like him do you?
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