If you really don't like the guy, then you just don't like him. There's no reason to feel guilty about that and no one should make you feel guilty for it. People have this thing where they think just because you are related to someone then you HAVE to love them and and all kinds of bullshit like that. If he is the kind of person who doesn't diserve your friendship or respect or love, then fuck it. You don't need or have to be around a person like that, blood or no blood.
Thats exactly how I feel. The thing is, I dont feel guilty that I don't like him, I'm totally cool with it. Its almost like...I'm guilty that I'm not guilty. Wierd. But its not a big thing. I feel like I've washed my hands of him. There's no reason to keep him in my "life". He's just another body to me.
Thats almost how I feel about my brother. It's more pity then anything that keeps me from just disowning him. He isn't respectful to our Father, who goes out of his way on a regular basis to help him out of the stupid situations he gets himself into, and gets no thanks, or respect for it. My brother didn't even call my Father on his birthday. I didn't either. I didn't remember until midnight, but i called the very next morning and apologized. My brother was reminded by my mother the day before and still didn't call. Many other things involving his back water attitudes and vulgarity, the fact that he is passing it on to his kids makes me sick. I try when I'm around them to make them understand there are better ways to think and be. What are you supposed to do though? If he were someone I worked with, or just met, I wouldn't give him a second thought, let alone attempt a friendship. Just b/c you are in someones family doesn't mean that you have to like or have anything to do with them. You don't feel guilty because you don't have
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If you really don't like the guy, then you just don't like him. There's no reason to feel guilty about that and no one should make you feel guilty for it. People have this thing where they think just because you are related to someone then you HAVE to love them and and all kinds of bullshit like that. If he is the kind of person who doesn't diserve your friendship or respect or love, then fuck it. You don't need or have to be around a person like that, blood or no blood.
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There's no reason to keep him in my "life". He's just another body to me.
Thanks for not thinking I'm a bad person.
~Beefy!
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