It's been a while

[the_momo]

I don’t even remember the last time I updated my journal but it looks like at the time I thought I was sexy so that’s not bad. So, I figured I was much overdue for a “not weak” entry

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sooner or later

[blahdeedah8904]

Hey Mo, I haven't talked with you in awhile because I haven't seen you in forever. I'm sorry that girls suck right now for you. Not to drone on about my relationship, but Duncan and I have dated for almost 7 months now...and even though the Catholic religion is less strict than the Mormon religion, he still treats me right and it's great because we both know each other's morals before either of us have to state them. You'll find that 'right someone'. Whether it be sooner or later, you'll know and you'll be greatful that you waited so damn long to find the right someone. I waited 16 years...he wanted 18...

Momo, you're awesome and have a great day. I hope whatever girl you find...I hope she treats you right because you deserve someone who will treat you wonderfully. xoxo-Stacey

[ddrbpc]

Being in a relationship doesn't really make you not lonely. There have been many a girl I have dated who could't fill the void that I had. This may not be the case to you but whatever you do dont convince yourself that getting a relationship will solve these problems because it may disapoint you. As far as the morals go they are obviously very important to you and you already have come to realzie that many people dont share the same morals. I have dated drinkers and a few drug users and I have never been forced or had any of it forced upon me. Surprisingly the word NO in this day and age holds great power and respect. So then the question becomes can you have fun around people who are using said things? Does them using said things make them immoral? Or do they simply just have a different set of morals? As far as being pressured into sex that can be a tricky one. When I was in 8th grade my girlfriend pressured me into having sex and even tried to rape me. She is no missing a tooth or two because of it but thats a whole

*bitch hat*

[kwpdb8]

I didn't spread a rumor about you, silly Mormon. You made statements that verified exactly what I was saying. Saying that you don't want any woman you date to have a job, even if the same doesn't hold true for all women, counts as viewing that choice as detrimental or otherwise inferior to sticking around and having kids

Re: *bitch hat*

[the_momo]

What?!? When did I ever say that I didn't want "any woman [I] date to have a job"? Look you want to tell people that I believe that in the ideal, perfect situation the husband should be the "bread-winner" so the wife can raise the children that's great. That's my opinion, but at the point at which you tell people that I hate women you cross the line and "spread a rumor". And I have no idea when abortion comes in to play. I assume that's what you're talking about when you talk about a woman's right to her uterus. There are plenty of women, ie people like Elizabeth who don't believe abortion is right. Does that mean that they hate women??? See the difference while you may say that I only repect women that act in the correct manner, this is completely false. If it wasn't how would I respect anyone? Everyone that's posted on this entry has different views than me, yet I have respect for all of them. It comes down to this I have no problem respecting people w/ different views than me, even if those views would have me be

Re: *bitch hat*

[kwpdb8]

You said it in an AIM conversation. I might have it saved somewhere

Re: *bitch hat*

[the_momo]

No what I said in the aim conversation was "in an ideal world women wouldn't have jobs". I don't want to focus on that because that's not really what this conversation is coming to. What you really argue is that somehow I only respect women who do what I believe in. The problem is that I don't offer a paradigm because what I said only works under ideal circumstanes. What are ideal circumstances. Furthermore if making somesort of choice creates a paradigm with these consequences I am prevented from making any choices or moral value judgements EVER because there will always be someone whose decisions would be discriminated against. What are the ramifications of not allowing any beliefs or not allowing women or anyone to exercise their agency, in this case staying at home and raising children?