I know it is difficult to say, but don't let your negative emotions toward the issue get the best of you. It is difficult to see the bright side, because the bright side is extremely dim. He told you the truth -- which is more than any man would do.
I would be absolutely furious... and most likely act out. You have the right to be angry, he betrayed you in a way that is unforgivable.
I am not saying forgive. I am saying to use this as an opportunity to grow as a person and take the road less traveled.
It is more painful to harbor the anger than to let go. I would know. I really wish I didn't hate Evan as much as I do. I nurtured it and let it grow when I should have simply walked away.
You called me and told me what happened and it was pretty shocking to hear.
I'm a firm believe in karma and so what goes around comes around eventually. As hard as it may seem, I think you should just let go, forgive him, and move on. It's the only way to let your heart heal <3.
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I would be absolutely furious... and most likely act out. You have the right to be angry, he betrayed you in a way that is unforgivable.
I am not saying forgive. I am saying to use this as an opportunity to grow as a person and take the road less traveled.
It is more painful to harbor the anger than to let go. I would know. I really wish I didn't hate Evan as much as I do. I nurtured it and let it grow when I should have simply walked away.
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jaw dropped.
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I'm over it now though. He'll get everything he deserves.
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I'm a firm believe in karma and so what goes around comes around eventually.
As hard as it may seem, I think you should just let go, forgive him, and move on. It's the only way to let your heart heal <3.
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