The Legacy we leave

[the_sickness]

Ok this isnt actually about pics that us tease girls have posted its about text. Do you ever wonder if in the future your children will find this? And go man my parent was (insert thought here) Its not a big deal for those of you who dont want kids but for those who do maybe think before you flip out? Not really sure but it was just something i

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[alisachan]

Well, I know this is live"journal" but treating it like an actual journal is a very bad idea because it is public and anyone can read it or come across it so yeah, don't write about something you wouldn't want your family, friends, enemies, future kids, grandmother, etc to find and read because it's not impossible that they might some day.

[the_sickness]

Thanks for replying, hows the tax situation? Do you have someone to help you with it? I know a really good accountant down here who maybe able to help, she just did my bf taxes and he is an artist so he can take off movies, video games, etc...hope your well.

[irish_kevin]

I think you're a smart girl and you'll be able to bring tolerance and acceptance into your child's life. I can't imagine your child to become closed-minded or ignorant with you raising her. That means that when she's old enough to understand she will not freak out.

The only culture where people care about this sort of stuff is the American culture. This country is full of people who are sexually confused and insecure and mentally unstable. With the exception of the middle east, most other cultures have naked women in advertisments. They are way more relaxed and tolerant. They realize that certain things really shouldn't matter. We let things that shouldn't matter get in the way of our happiness because we make them obstacles when they should be enjoyed.

My point is that this is all subjective. As long as nothing is taboo then nothing is shocking. I know you understand this and so will your child. You have nothing to worry about. It's not like you're a prostitute. hehe

[the_sickness]

I wasnt actually referring to myself and i was saying, in regard to your prostitute thing that i think the pics are fine its stuff like "oh that bitch is a fucking whore etc" I think nudity is completely fine it was negative comments or emo whines i was more concerned about for other people cus your kids could just be surfing and be like oh my mom cut a bitch.

[irish_kevin]

I know. Looking back at that post I really didn't explain myself too well. Hooray for posting when you're exhausted.

[tutore]

You're right, however my child is 1 year old. I use nicknames; I also think that I'll delete everything referring to my family in a 4-5 years lifespan. I don't want that my son reads about me that way.

[the_sickness]

There is a degree of personal life we all want to have i think and i see on some peoples journals every intimate detail of their life. Its like Alisa said it shouldnt be a super personal journal anyone can read this stuff in the future or hack into the private journals if your so inclined to create them.

[tutore]

Right. Indeed I'm not using too much of my personal life.

[bigcutedog]

I don't think most think about it because so many are good at deleting things, closing their eyes and pretending things never happened.

[the_sickness]

Your so completely right, miss chatting with you aim me sometime

[ladyxenie]

I'm not popular enough to leave a legacy...^_^'' I just hope my kids will know mommy loves life and ...wait..my future kids...the ones I adopt for japan...^_^... Right back on track now...I hope they understand that I was just living life and having a lil fun...My family on the otherhand..already know everything...and want nothing to do with me..^_^ oh well!