Case of the Ex
I'm not giving him the satisfaction of an argument, so I'ma rant here.
Martin Carter
8:52pm Dec 29th
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Hey, I want the money back you owe me. I'm not going to ask for every little thing, I just want the money back for the Wii and the laptop, which works out to £700. (Wii - £200, Laptop - £500).
I know yr not made of money, however it isn't impossible. I work 19 hours a week on basic rate and earn £350 (a month), so two months work and you'll be able to give me it. I want it by my birthday (April 23rd), so technically you'd only have to work half the hours for twice the time. (9.5 hours - £175 a month for four months etc).
You can give me it all in one go or in installments, I don't mind. Let me know when you have some/all of it and I'll send you my bank details so you can transfer it.
Thanks, M x
James Ramsden
11:03pm Dec 29th
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are you having a laugh?
Martin Carter
10:31am Dec 30th
No, I'm deadly serious, why? I bought you those things on the premise that you and yr mum would pay me back. You haven't. So now I'm asking you for it.
James Ramsden
3:25pm Dec 30th
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you've got a fucking cheek. was the katie jane dvd for £400 not enough for you, or the £3000 sitting in your bank, or have you just got a taste for money? or are you just buying the new guys forgiveness already?
The days where you can speak to me like a stupid twat are fucking over you greedy cunt. I owe you fuck all. and as you said, after you so kindly ruined our holiday, "you dont owe me for the laptop, i dont deserve it after that". or do you just think you can sail through life having everything? no. it doesnt work like that.
you've got an easy life martin and i dont know how you fucking got it, cos u damn well dont deserve it. you made my life hell over autumn and now you want to go through winter? no.
and next time you want to lecture me about what i owe you, just fucking think about what you owe me.
a while ago i could look back on those two and a half years and be grateful for the time i had, now it was just a big fucking waste of time leading up to a huge dissapointment.
i never want to see or hear from you ever again. and you should hope i dont.
Martin Carter
Now
First off, the Katie Jane Garside DVD was a gift from you to me - so therefore its up to me what I do with it, just as its up to you what you do with the guitar I bought you, the DVDS, CDs, art books etc. Selling the DVD was just trying to raise some money which you owed me, which it looks like I'm not going to get back now.... And I don't have £3000 in my bank, I have £2500, I lent you £500 remember? I LENT you the money, you owe me it. It WASN'T a gift.
I don't need to buy my boyfriend anything, let alone forgiveness. He's amazing, he treats me with respect and our relationship is equal. All you did was take take take, and you run yr mouth when someone questions yr selfishness. You take everyone around you for granted, you don't deserve to be loved - you don't deserve such doting friends and you certainly don't deserve such an amazing mother. You don't even respect yrself. You take these ppl for a ride and one day you'll regret it.
I don't know how you can say that I ruined yr holiday, I paid for it! You wouldn't have seen or done half of the things you did over the last 2 and a half years if it wasn't for me. And a girl is allowed to change her mind. I was in a black place when we split up, and I didn't know what I wanted. I thought I wanted to fall back in love with you, and I knew the way into yr heart was via money, so I said that you didn't have to pay me back in the hope that we could salvage something. I've been through my self-purge, I've been through my self-hate. I've been to the bottom, I've been so low that the only place left to go was up. I've learnt to stand on my own two feet. I've learnt to love myself. You still think you have the moral high ground. You need to take a long hard look at yrself and go through what I did, then you'll realise that there are two sides to every story, and we all had a part to play in what happened.
I don't have an 'easy life' but I also know I've not got it particularly hard either. Yes, I've always been comfortable in regards to money, but I've always worked. I work fucking hard in terms of both academia and retail. You haven't had a job since you started Uni and even at Uni you do fuck all, never turn in, you don't try in the slightest. Bank balances aren't everything, but if I do have an easy life its because I worked for it, not because I borrowed off credit cards or sponged from doting boyfriends.
I don't owe you anything. People cheat for a reason.
I hope everytime you play on yr Wii you think of me.
I hope everytime you turn yr laptop on you think of me.
I hope everytime you play some shit Nine Inch Nails cover on yr guitar you think of me.
I hope you never forget me.
"I would never wish bad things, but I don't wish you well"
Martin Carter
8:52pm Dec 29th
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Hey, I want the money back you owe me. I'm not going to ask for every little thing, I just want the money back for the Wii and the laptop, which works out to £700. (Wii - £200, Laptop - £500).
I know yr not made of money, however it isn't impossible. I work 19 hours a week on basic rate and earn £350 (a month), so two months work and you'll be able to give me it. I want it by my birthday (April 23rd), so technically you'd only have to work half the hours for twice the time. (9.5 hours - £175 a month for four months etc).
You can give me it all in one go or in installments, I don't mind. Let me know when you have some/all of it and I'll send you my bank details so you can transfer it.
Thanks, M x
James Ramsden
11:03pm Dec 29th
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are you having a laugh?
Martin Carter
10:31am Dec 30th
No, I'm deadly serious, why? I bought you those things on the premise that you and yr mum would pay me back. You haven't. So now I'm asking you for it.
James Ramsden
3:25pm Dec 30th
Report Message
you've got a fucking cheek. was the katie jane dvd for £400 not enough for you, or the £3000 sitting in your bank, or have you just got a taste for money? or are you just buying the new guys forgiveness already?
The days where you can speak to me like a stupid twat are fucking over you greedy cunt. I owe you fuck all. and as you said, after you so kindly ruined our holiday, "you dont owe me for the laptop, i dont deserve it after that". or do you just think you can sail through life having everything? no. it doesnt work like that.
you've got an easy life martin and i dont know how you fucking got it, cos u damn well dont deserve it. you made my life hell over autumn and now you want to go through winter? no.
and next time you want to lecture me about what i owe you, just fucking think about what you owe me.
a while ago i could look back on those two and a half years and be grateful for the time i had, now it was just a big fucking waste of time leading up to a huge dissapointment.
i never want to see or hear from you ever again. and you should hope i dont.
Martin Carter
Now
First off, the Katie Jane Garside DVD was a gift from you to me - so therefore its up to me what I do with it, just as its up to you what you do with the guitar I bought you, the DVDS, CDs, art books etc. Selling the DVD was just trying to raise some money which you owed me, which it looks like I'm not going to get back now.... And I don't have £3000 in my bank, I have £2500, I lent you £500 remember? I LENT you the money, you owe me it. It WASN'T a gift.
I don't need to buy my boyfriend anything, let alone forgiveness. He's amazing, he treats me with respect and our relationship is equal. All you did was take take take, and you run yr mouth when someone questions yr selfishness. You take everyone around you for granted, you don't deserve to be loved - you don't deserve such doting friends and you certainly don't deserve such an amazing mother. You don't even respect yrself. You take these ppl for a ride and one day you'll regret it.
I don't know how you can say that I ruined yr holiday, I paid for it! You wouldn't have seen or done half of the things you did over the last 2 and a half years if it wasn't for me. And a girl is allowed to change her mind. I was in a black place when we split up, and I didn't know what I wanted. I thought I wanted to fall back in love with you, and I knew the way into yr heart was via money, so I said that you didn't have to pay me back in the hope that we could salvage something. I've been through my self-purge, I've been through my self-hate. I've been to the bottom, I've been so low that the only place left to go was up. I've learnt to stand on my own two feet. I've learnt to love myself. You still think you have the moral high ground. You need to take a long hard look at yrself and go through what I did, then you'll realise that there are two sides to every story, and we all had a part to play in what happened.
I don't have an 'easy life' but I also know I've not got it particularly hard either. Yes, I've always been comfortable in regards to money, but I've always worked. I work fucking hard in terms of both academia and retail. You haven't had a job since you started Uni and even at Uni you do fuck all, never turn in, you don't try in the slightest. Bank balances aren't everything, but if I do have an easy life its because I worked for it, not because I borrowed off credit cards or sponged from doting boyfriends.
I don't owe you anything. People cheat for a reason.
I hope everytime you play on yr Wii you think of me.
I hope everytime you turn yr laptop on you think of me.
I hope everytime you play some shit Nine Inch Nails cover on yr guitar you think of me.
I hope you never forget me.
"I would never wish bad things, but I don't wish you well"