Random question, I need honest opinions...

[theartoflove]

How long should a couple be together, an estimate if you will, before they move in together? I know it probably depends on the couple, and how "in love" they are, but I just want a numbered answer...

*this may or maynot have to do with me, I'm just curious*

Comments

[princessape]

1 Year and Two Stable Incomes.

[theartoflove]

Your answer is definitely the most logical.

[princessape]

see...
there's sleeping over and having sex.

and there's sleeping over, having sex, dealing with dirty bathrooms, signing your names to a lease that you can't run away from in a year, and etc. etc. etc.

if its not serious, it seems like too much heartache and a giant blow to the wallet.

[nrmiller]

8 months

[myheart_cavesin]

I definitely agree with the first answer.

[abbyxskinny]

First answer.

[theartoflove]

This has nothing to do with my post...I talked to Nick, he can't make it your way until AFTER November 11th. He has this top secret thing going on. BUT I'm planning a trip to State which is just down the road from you on October 8th, maybe we can work something out?

[abbyxskinny]

that "thing" is top secret?? cause I totally know what it is...but yeah I'm coming home this weekend anyways to celebrate my bday with my family and am hanging out over there thursday and i think saturday night. and as for up here, yes do come by! my birthday is the next day, the 9th, so we will probably be doing something grand that night if i can get it all planned in time. who knows.

[theartoflove]

haha i know what the top secret thing is too, but im not supposed to tell anyone. haha, i don't know if the trip is going to happen now...

[lovehungryman]

well, honestly. my two long term relationships i've lived with them on both occasions. the first one we dated for around 2 years and lived together for around 6 months. it just wasn't a good relationship. this time i've been dating her for over two years and we've lived together for over a year and a half. it's dissolving but, not on a sour note. throw caution to the wind i say. damned if you do and damned if you don't.