I hate to say that yes, I think you are overreacting. Hate to put out so strongly. If Steve got pissed off at her saying that you two weren't going to last is one hell of a good sign that he is loyal to you. And I also think it's really good that you told him how you feel about her. I just don't want to to become so overprotective with Steve to the point where he can't say "hi" to another girl. Will was like that with other guys when I said hi to them and it pissed me off. It's ok for him to hang out. Just ask what he did, if you feel like he gave a straight answer, then everything's ok. I really don't think he would trade someone who loves him soo much for someone who just want to go down in his pants. I think you should just not worry all that much. I know everything will go well for you guys.
Thanks, gal! You're right, I don't want to be nervous everytime he says hi to a girl. After all, he does have lots of other female friends. I guess the difference with them is that they don't mind me being there. Besides, she likes horses, I guess, how awful can she be? ;-)
Don't stress, Steve loves you and you shouldn't let jealousy or paranoia get into a great relationship like yours. I know a girl who broke up with her boyfriend cuz he too jealous and possessive, so he's been regretting it ever since. Just be yourself when you meet this girl and don't worry about trying to look better than her, and you might end up becoming good friends or something. :)
The thing is, it looks like it's pretty clear that she's just a friend and not trying to steal Steve away from you. But shouldn't Steve be able to have his own friends too? Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she can't associate with him on a friendly basis. If it's really a healthy relationship, then you should be able to trust him enough to let him socialize on his own terms, the same way you do. And I'm sure he'd be grateful for that.
Man, I guess my entry did sound bad. He does have other female friends, whom I get along with perfectly well. In fact, a lot of them are my friends now, too. So I know it sounded like I was horrified of him having friends, but that's really not the case, it's just this one girl in particular. But you're right, I am overreacting. :-(
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The thing is, it looks like it's pretty clear that she's just a friend and not trying to steal Steve away from you. But shouldn't Steve be able to have his own friends too? Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she can't associate with him on a friendly basis. If it's really a healthy relationship, then you should be able to trust him enough to let him socialize on his own terms, the same way you do. And I'm sure he'd be grateful for that.
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