June 19, 2009

[theblue_phoenix]

So what's going on? I now have a job. It's not extravagent but it's income. Also: my grandmother died last Sunday. I miss her, but I'll survive. So with me now having a job, that means I can actually start looking at girls again. I'm not sure how to go about this, since I've never had a godly example to watch, so guess I'll have to wing it

Comments

[lyss]

I'm very sorry for your loss.

[theblue_phoenix]

Thank you.

[historicula]

Condolences and Congratulations.

And maybe you shouldn't be looking for girls, but just enjoying the company of the women around you. If something happens it'll happen.

[knittingdemon]

seconded

from your past posts it seems like you don't need terribly much in terms of how to proceed, you just need to be friends with girls and if/when one strikes your fancy go from there

the looking is SOOO much easier when your not ACTIVELY looking
if that made any sense

[theblue_phoenix]

true. nice in theory, but I guess I'm worrying and my usual faith is being lost simply because of the fact that I'm turning 25 this year. Unmarried and 25 is not where I want to be. But I suppose I should cast that idea aside and just but it all in God's hands. Let him bring me a girl when it is his will. I lose faith you see. Mostly because of how important it is. I really want children of my own and a family too.

Though I guess if I can trust him with my soul, I can trust him with my love life.

On the other hand, I'm a guy. My job is different from yours. The bible says that a man who finds a wife will be blessed or something like that, putting the responsibility for the finding on the man, implying an active seeking. Though I need to do a more thorough search of the subject.

[knittingdemon]

my husband is closer to 30 than he is 25 and we've only been married a year, I know the waiting/seeking is nerve racking but "if you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plan"....

good luck